Married guy seems moody since I got into a relationship?

[Buggington93]

This married guy who has flirted with me for years, who told me he would go out with me if he wasn’t married, flirted in a sexual manner has become almost grumpy and petulant since I got into a relationship.

When I told him I had bought a house, he had a huge smile on his face and said he was happy for me. Then he asked “have you bought it for you and your boyfriend” to which I answered yes. His smile faded a little bit straight away and then eventually he just looked p*seed and he almost seemed annoyed at me.

[bones_20]

Ok. Not exactly sure what the question is here. All I can take from this is that he doesn’t seem to care too much for his wife.

[Buggington93]

Yeah, I just realised I didn’t actually specify any question, apologies lol. Just wondered why he’s being like this

[bones_20]

You’re both in a relationship with other people, this shouldn’t even be an issue. And if it is then those relationships or more specifically, his marriage need to end because it’s not ok.

[Alwayreckles93]

How old is he? If his your age or in his 30's then he needs to act like mature adult.

[Buggington93]

He’s 40

[Alwayreckles93]

Wow my jaw just drop. At that age you would believe he wouldn't act like a child. I mean I'm shocked.

[Alwayreckles93]

That's weird I see no need for him to be pissed about you buying a house and your boyfriend.

[Buggington93]

It’s crazy right? He’s almost obsessive

[Wise4myage]

He's had the hots for you for a very long time.

[Buggington93]

He’s had several chances to have me and he’s known that I’ve always had a huge crush on him

[Wise4myage]

His loss, right?