My husband does not seem interested in me anymore?

[Anonymous]

We are newly wed, and he is already not interested in me. He is cold and nonchalant. He stays all day on his phone, does not speak to me or even look at me. When i ask him questions he does not focus or answer with care he just says anything to end the conversation. I find that there is a weird barrier that I can’t break, although he pursed me for marriage and was enthusiastic it just suddenly faded and we got distant. He says flirty smart things and hugs me and basically just ditches me all day. Its very weird… would it be possible that he is cheating?

[Emelina]

I think and may be I am wrong... but if you guys were together more than 5 years before he proposed to you, and he thought it was time to get married bc either the pressure of family, friends, co-workers, or may be yourself too? I don't know, but if this is the case it's bc he got pressured enough that he had to make everyone happy that HE HAD TO GET MARRIED in order to make it official so to shut everyone and he can live his life without the nagging of people telling him... so when are you getting married? But now that he has accomplished it, he isn't happy with being married, and his decision was a wrong one for him and fills guilty for marrying you, which he still loves you but not the way he wanted to be.
Another scenario is that he may have a lot on his mind, such as financial, work, knowing he is no longer dating now his married, and trying to figure out what the future is going to be for both of you? Whatever he has on his mind, it needs to be addressed as soon as possible, ask him point blank what's on your mind, you seemed stressed about something? bc I tried to communicate with you and you rush the conversation fast on me so you can avoid me? Have I done something wrong with us? Try to get to the bottom of the problem, and see what he has to say; it's not healthy to have barriers in a marriage without solving the issues at that moment. Communicate is very very important and one or the other has to give in so your life can go on without being upset with each other. Hope you both find a solution towards what it may be the problem in your relationship. Hugsxxx

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Talk to him and ask him if there’s something you can work on. I find it to be a best solution to talk about something that concerns you.

[ohsheeT]

I would have to say your marriage was a spur of the moment kind of idea and then it was probably meant well but he probably didn't know you that well and vice versa

I would say there is a part of him that is angry either at himself or with you maybe something you have done that he doesn't understand but you need to communicate about it if you don't I guarantee it this won't last another 6 months

This is either a growing moment for you both or this is a moment where you split even deeper apart but it's your choice and his choice either to make it work or not make it work this is that moment the longer it takes to fix it the worse it will get

[RealMarek]

Maybe, but maybe not. Could be a porn habit, or could just be showing his true colors now that you’re married. You deserve an explanation. Ask him why he’s changed. Tell him it feels like a bait and switch. And, if you’re not willing to put up with it and he refuses to improve, then you can tell him this is a red line for you.

[Anonymous]

it doesn’t really sound as though he’s cheating. At the same time he shouldn’t have lost interest this fast. As you get older w kids, work, etc, things may die down a little but this early in marriage. No the chase should still be on. When I was younger, newly married I used to take her all over, so things, explore together. How long have you two been together?

[DermalPunch]

He is cheating. It's so obvious.

[DermalPunch]

Yes, he likely has someone else. He probably has guilt but a lot of men opt to mistreat the woman they are doing wrong by so they don't have to deal with the realities that they are worthless relationship partners.

[richardcory]

Did this happen gradually or was there a sudden change? Do you spend time together doing fun things or has life become a sort of continuing chore. Do you still have an exciting sex life, or has that faded?

[kylee2437]

For your age range, it’s very rare that a man that age wants to be tied down and married. I suspect he isn’t 100% loyal

[MementoMori777]

i really hope thats not the case but you should try opening up to him about how he is treating you and try getting some answers

[spartan55]

Why is that always the first option? Use your critical thinking skills here.

[slatyb]

Newly wed? Stop wasting your life and have it annulled.

[shades777]

those phones are the enemy if being social, women are guilty of the nonchalant behavior more than men but if a man does it its worst because it's mainly a girly thing to do

[sheikalana]

I wouldn't say cheating but you need to have a conversation with him about his behavior.

[Danny_dan92]

It’s possible that your marriage is over sooner than later

[Anonymous]

It's possible, but is it relevant? Whether he's cheating or not, this isn't what you signed up for, is it? I'd get out now before it gets worse.

[KrakenAttackin]

Have you become a super cunt once the ring went on? Do you use sex as a weapon?

[noohair]

Well it seems you he has showed you what he is really like.

[Luckycharms12]

Go for weekend away food sexy lingerie wild times put spark back in to things

[Anonymous]

a lot of marriages don't last. It sounds like yours might be one of those that fail.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he married you for convenience. Consider getting your marriage annulled.

[Anonymous]

How recent? How long did it take for him to propose?

[Jazzy54]

How long did you know each other before marriage?

[Rockstarrrrr]

Run before it's too late...

[Vegasrunner]

It depends I his value is high enough.