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Earlier this week on Wed, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs. We’ve been in contact via Instagram messages. Friday we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see the Spider-Man movie yesterday. Fri evening I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. Yesterday before the movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on Wednesday, I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on. He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. On Wednesday, we ended with a hug. When I spoke with him Friday, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but yesterday was so off, he sent a message after movie saying that he wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him. He unmatched with me on the dating app and I stopped following him on IG. Bit soon to say but he’s still following me on IG and viewed my stories after saying he didn’t want to talk to me anymore. Hasn’t gotten around to unfollowing me I guess.

We have been on and off for 6 years. After the first year he randomly broke up with me. I saw messages between him and his friend talking about how good looking their past experiences had became and his friend was like shame you’ll have to sleep with your girlfriend (me). He then pleaded for me back. And I saw messages between the same friend saying how amazing looking I was. (This friend tried with me before my boyfriend and I rejected him). His friend was saying yeah she’s so stunning. But they must have known I read their messages. But he also said stop talking like that or I’ll sleep with your girlfriend..

Then he got fed up of me being bothered of this conversation. Then broke up with me. Tried his hardest whenever he was out but kept getting rejected. He finally managed to kiss a girl who was really ugly. He even admitted that but that was his type at the time.

Then I moved on (he made a Facebook status calling me a cheat..) after he broke up with me and tried to move on. He begged for me back then. Stalked me on social media. A month later I gave in and got back with him. It was perfect for a month. (He was still always searching girls up on social media’s)

Then he broke it off again but kept sleeping with me. He finally managed to kiss another girl. Who wasn’t ugly. He felt the need to call me ugly randomly but she didn’t want to sleep with him either so he begged for me back. I found out about this a year later.

It’s always like this. Is he just using me or does he genuinely find me attractive and want me? He always claims we get back together because we can’t help it and that we are soulmates.

Did him and his friend stage that conversation