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My girlfriend just bought her house. I thought moving in with her would be an opportunity to save money, but I don't know if it’s worth it. I’d only be paying $700 for everything, but I don't know if I can live the way she lives.

It’s a 2 bedroom, 1 bath condo. The guest room doesn’t have a bed and she has people sleeping over on a regular. They usually sleep on the living room couch. She told me when her mom and grandma come to visit we must sleep on floor because “they have health issues”.

I offered to bring my bed and put it in the guest room which she refused to do so. The reason for this is because she has so many clothes she doesn’t wear, and a bunch of stuff she has no space for.

Lots of times she has her friends come over with their children. Usually the kids play her bedroom. Which I see as an issue because one time I was staying with her she let the children play in her room. And one of them smashed my iPhone screen. Another issue is that 6 of her friends have keys to her house. And I don't know if I can live there under these conditions.

Warning, this is going to be a wall of text but I'll keep it as lean as possible.

What do you think, will a relationship work if the man is the technical one, uses Arch Linux OS on his device, a custom ROM on his mobile device instead of Android (that is if it's not a flip phone), encrypted his devices and data and uses strong passwords, decentralizes everything, that he uses, that he can decentralize (avoids the know your customer central exchanges such as Binance and uses something like Electrum instead), avoids using those tech giants services (especially Google and Microsoft and their email services and instead either uses something like Proton, Tuta or self-hosts his own and private Email provider) and staying off from social media (meaning he has no account on there to begin with) and resists mass surveillance and privacy violating things and trying as much to stay under the radar whenever possible and avoids using Whatsapp and instead uses Signal, the messaging app, that Edward Snowden has endorsed while his girlfriend/wife/woman is a stark contrast to it: She is avid on social media, posting regularly about many things including her private life and activities and very openly stating her personal opinions in such public places, consuming content on Tik Tok and Instagram and the likes, uses either Windows 10 or 11 or MacOS with Apple devices, has an iPhone, uses Apple products and services, maybe uses a Google account with google services like Gmail, hides nothing, has a weak if any password, uses privacy violating mainstream apps like Whatsapp and doesn't really mind the cuckware, that came preinstalled with her devices.

(This has got to be the longest sentence I have written)

Can such a relationship work or even prosper?

In my experience even just not being on social media has yielded me reactions from people, that can be described as me wearing an aluminum hat. Or those weird questions like "Who/what/why are you hiding?" like i'd tell ya, you fkn idiot