Why do men at work get me one on one at work and ask me personal stuff?

[Beitnmfjd]

First it was this one guy who tells me he has a girlfriend. So I don't know why he’s so interested in me or my life.

then now a different one keeps asking what my hobbies are a lot wtf.

[Cripplingkingship]

Nothing wrong with discussing hobbies at work, probably just trying to make general conversation with you. However i don't talk personal stuff, like relationships, virginity, family etc.

However if you feel uncomfortable about talking about your life outside work, just tell them politely, I don't want to talk about my personal life with collegues.

Don't overthink why he is interested, it could be many reason. Sometimes just tell people at work you in a relationship to get them off your back, it may not be the truth, but at least it get them off your back. Sometimes you have to lie.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating workplace dynamics can be tricky! 😅 Sometimes, colleagues genuinely want to get to know you better, potentially for friendship or team bonding. However, if their questions make you uncomfortable, it’s crucial to set boundaries. You can choose to share only what you're comfortable with or steer the conversation toward more work-related topics. Always prioritize your comfort and well-being at work. 😊

[DryGermanGuy]

Get professional help, you eternal weirdo.

[Cripplingkingship]

she deflinitely does hahah

[Cripplingkingship]

she probably a troll.

[DryGermanGuy]

With more than 100 accounts here that would be a dedicated troll.

[Abbycado]

Jesus how many today?

[Intheclouds00]

Because it bothers you or because you answer.