Do you have to be courageous to cut someone off and ignore them because they abuse you mentally or verbally? Will he come back to try to get me?

[Oiirtnntt]

I did what I had to, and he finally got the message. He didn’t even try to say hi today at work.

he has a girlfriend so I don't know why he was trying to get my attention and flirting this entire time to begin with. I don’t ask for that type of attention from men I’m super quiet. It’s always the cheating assholes who chase me down and seem most interested in me. It’s gonna take courage to keep at the ignoring and distance at work with him and not give in. I don't know if he will ever try to get friendly again but he has a girlfriend so I don't know why he did it in the first place. None of this sh it makes sense cue happier than ever Billie Eilish. A whole MOOD. Been singing this song lately so much. Funny how much it fits. The anger at the end specially. Now I’m free of him. He left me alone. He ignored me back. I’m finally free. All the insults he made about my looks have disappeared into thin air in my heart. Funny how just cutting shitty abusers out gets rid of so much pain.

[Makeushiver]

Well you have to be courageous enough go realize that being alone is preferable to a situation that involves abuse. Being courageous isn't not experiencing fear. Its much closer to feeling that fear and doing what is necessary despite the fear. You might want to approach it while you are taking steps go prevent him from getting near you. Like a restraining order that ! an dates how close he can be to you without legal consequences. No matter how much bluster he has, if he's sane he will realize that getting popped as a sex offender is much worse than hos commitment yo hassling ypu.

[Oiirtnntt]

He’s ignoring me back now. So I’m guessing it’s over.

[Avicenna]

If he’s dumb enough to contact you again, tell his girlfriend

[Oiirtnntt]

He’s a coworker. All he’s hve to do was try to say hi or something or
Make an excuse to interact. He sounded hurt when I ignored him to his face so I think he doesn’t wanna be hurt a d try to talk to me again. Also I don't know his girlfriend

[elizamichale1]

Definitely u need to be courageous for tht

[Oiirtnntt]

I don’t wanna feel weak and miss him and let him back

[elizamichale1]

Well whenever ur heart gets soft for him just remember his abusive behavior n u won't feel that softness again

[Oiirtnntt]

Thanks that’s a really good idea :)

[elizamichale1]

😊😊

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for the mho honey

[MannMitAntworten]

Courageous? No. Decisive for your own betterment? Absolutely, yes.

[Oiirtnntt]

Thanks. I felt bad cause he sounded hurt. I know he’s a sensitive guy. But he repeatedly insulted my appearance. He knows I don’t like it. What did he really expect?

[MannMitAntworten]

The abusive always lean towards the weakest of constitution of character. You did your spirits a favor in severing yourself in this relationship. That anyone chooses the path of insult and injury - especially with one they claim to cherish and love … low character. Perhaps the lowest.

[Oiirtnntt]

Thank you for saying that. The low character thing really puts a new perspective on this for me. I knew he had poor morals based solely on some things he’s said but I guess it was easier to overlook it because it was “just words,” and I didn’t see him actually act those things out. But now that you say his mistreatment of me is about low character it makes me want to stay far away from him even more. I didn’t realize how tied in those things were with one another.

[MannMitAntworten]

Chalk it up to a learned moment and hopefully moving forward you can pick out those sort of individuals to avoid. ;-)

[Oiirtnntt]

So true. You rock! Thanks again!

[MannMitAntworten]

You are welcomed :-) My pleasure :-)

[Iron_Man]

No, that’s cruel and evil. A person with no conscience no heart a total gutless coward

[Oiirtnntt]

Who me?

[Iron_Man]

No I’m talking about people that do that in general