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The guy is Muay Thai class A pro-fighter at the local town's sports centre (Muay Thai oriented). I'm a beginner class B.

I don't know him properly, but I've heard some things about him (mostly good) and I have also looked him up at the fighter's page (he seems to be around my age or slightly older). He's really good at Muay Thai (thai box) and has already won a title and other fight matches as well.

I think I might already have a crush on him. :|

We don't always meet (me being a beginner, him a pro) but when we do he always seems to be looking at me, he comments on the way I do stuff (not always the right way, I have much to learn), he's not rude but he's honest, he's also quite playful, he's noticed it makes me very nervous when he (as an occasional trainer) watches me so we kind of joke about that. 😅 It's hard to explain 😅 My first visit there, he actually let me borrow his expensive skipping rope. He's also always ready to say hi (one time I forgot my stuff there so I went back to this sports centre, I didn't know he's gonna be there and seemed so surprised by seeing me dolled up a little bit in my more normal clothes).

I guess I can't really expect more because we don't meet that often. :/ But when we were getting warmed up, I was supposed to pull him over, he of course did let me win (I guess he sees himself as a gentleman, he has that reputation there, girls said he doesn't punch as hard when sparred against a girl). In that moment, when we touched and held each other's arms, I thought I might have felt something but I brushed it off.

I haven't been with anyone for a long time now so I might sound like a little girl again to you.

I will really appreciate anyone who reads this wall of text of mine and shares what they think.

Hopeless romantic 💕

Backstory: We’re acquaintances (friends of a friend.), we met at a party in the beginning of the year. He’d been trying to ask me out I had a lot of things happening all at once. Career change and moving figuring out if I’d continue to live in the area or find something back in my hometown. I stayed in the area, he helped me move my mattress. Then we’d been texting pretty much everyday and he’d FaceTime me twice just talking nothing crazy. I had car trouble, that he fixed. I couldn’t pay him he knows I cook so he asked me if that could be his payment. I said yeah. We were hanging out eating, smoked some weed and we both had stuff to get back to.

Current: I found free roller skating at a park and asked if he wanted to go. He said yes and it became a date. We ended up hooking up. We had some technical difficulties and planned for next weekend.

That next weekend, He asked if I still wanted to go to the movies with him, I said yes. Dressed a little fancy and we came back to my place to eat. We watched another movie he really wanted to see b/c he hadn’t seen it. Movie finished at 3am, I asked if he was going home he said he was really tired. I said he can sleep here if he wants he said yeah. Surprise he wasn’t that tired. We tried with the sex again. He thought he was hurting me I assured him he wasn’t. I don’t think he believed me and we just laid there talking for like a half hour and fell asleep. He also left his earring. I didn’t say anything about it though. After we were texting for four days. The responses weren’t dry or sparse everything normal. Then he suddenly stopped.

Should I text him just a simple “Hey, you good?” Or just keep being radio silent? I can at least think of five reasons: He’s not interested. He’s an introvert a social battery thing. Focused on finding a new apartment that I distracted him from twice. He actually wants a girlfriend (not sure why). Or it’s all those reasons. Should I just not say anything and leave him alone?

It’s not really an option here but on some other sites you can go back and delete comments.

sometimes I’m caught up identifying with some kind of issue, so I’ll comment _a lot_ but after I’m like, doooooo I really want millions of people to know how I feel about very personal stuff.

Even tho I’m anonymous, some stuff- esp if over time there’s a lot of comments by you on diff subjects- it can look familiar, recognizable.

plus people on line can be so grouchy or condescending and then im just there, explaining and re explaining bc I hate being misunderstood. Then I step back & look at all the text and I’m thinking of this is way too much. I know where I’m coming from but if so beige doesn’t know yo too much text can just look “crazy”

so then I think, we’ll since I’m misunderstood anyhow I might as well delete it all instead of having my soul bared up there for all to see.

udk part of my is like it’s just your opinions and sone people are avoids. But the other part is like get rid get rid get rid. I’m also not used to talking about how I feel I don't know so when I do it on live it can be huge info dump. I lack proportion, I think,

1 bc I’m just very lengthy in explaining stuff normally bc that’s how my brain is wired three always ten parts to each one sort other people see, but also bc I don’t have experience doing it normally so I don't know what’s “normal” nor what’s “too much”. And just the fact of never doing it i got a lot to say in the moment.

Anyhow unlike real life I can delete the words if I want and it’s always tempting and so I don't know if I’m being lazy by not deleting stuff, or being too self conscious in worrying about deleting. I can’t tell. 🤷🏻‍♀️

If yes, then support your answer. Like sure there's therapy. But how do you think it happens? Have you ever witnessed it (the change)? I personally don't think. I think they just learn to identify their behaviours and control them. Correct me if I'm wrong but be polite.