Flirting and relationships?

Anonymous

Me and my Mrs had this group of firends for years boys and girls but mostly guys we all got on very well.

But my Mrs when drunk allways reverted to one lad in the group siting on his lap, allways sitting close to him, and when everyone was out in the garden they would sit on there own indoors.

I knew they where flirting Im very good at analysing things but when I confronted her saying I didn't like it and that it made me feel uncomfortable she just said don't worry its just flirty banter so I left it even though every time we all had drinks and barbecues round ours it still mad me mad and uncomfortable and when I asked do you fancy him or find him attractive she laughed and said fuck no he's a an idiot and talks bullshit.

Anyway 2 years or so had past and we was married we didn't see that lad over the 2year period because we had a falling out.

Anyway during our marriage I patched things up with him and invited him to our group and made up.

A couple months later me and the Mrs broke up for about 6 months on of talking and sleeping together but was still in love but I did make it difficult on her part she wanted us back together so much and it did break her and I feel shit for that I was going through my own shit instead of talking about it to her instead I shut it out.

The first month had past since we broke up and we had no contact for two weeks and we spoke on the phone joking, laughing and being normal.

I asked if she slept with anyone jokingly and she kept saying don't in a sensire voice I ask who it was she wouldn't say so I went to our home and asked I said was it him she slightly nodded yes I just burst into tears because I'd seen a picture of my sister in law and a couple of group firends there and him so I immediately said him. After that we spoke argued spoke argued but still we loved one another 2 months after sleeping with him she slept with him again.

So did she fancy him or find him attractive or was it rebound like she said.

Flirting and relationships?
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