Girls are notorious for saying one thing and meaning another, and that includes me too. So it is always difficult to know if she is really flirting or just being nice. They are such curious, confusing creatures. One moment they will melt your heart with kindness, and the next, they will leave you slumped on the floor in embarrassment. It is hard to decode a woman’s words, but much less her body language. If you pay attention to her subtle clues, you might find that she is actually not all that hard to read after all.
Her Smiles is almost always confusing, so be careful not to always interpret this as flirting. However, there is that flirty smile—a slow smile is flirty that reaches the eyes that give you a “come hither” look. It is an open invitation for you to come over and get to know her. A hair flip is a highly instinctual and classic move that dates back to the earliest humans. If a woman looks at you and touches her lips or even bites her puckers; it is a surefire way to know that she means something deep. Because one of the most tempting body parts for men can be the lips. If she is asking you for directions or to help her carrying something, this is one way she is trying to show you that she wants you to let out your inner knight to save her. Even a small and light touch on your arm while she listens intently to you is a huge sign. And if she likes what she is touching, it is up to you what to do. When a girl likes you, she will be much more self-conscious than normal. She will exhibit signs of being uneasy when you are around and when she looks at you and then looks away immediately when you catch her gaze. But at the same time she will want to be near you. She will keep a conversation going as long as it takes, and will be interested in what you have to say. She will laugh out loud at your jokes, even the ones that are not really that funny, because she just enjoys your company and she wants to compliment you. She will have a quick peek from your hairstyle to your cloths and down to the socks gushing about every detail she can find and compliment for it.
If she is asking you a whole host of questions, she is most likely trying to flirt with you, and trying to see just how much you have in common. Men and women, of course, try to impress the apples of their eyes, whether by grooming, showing off some talents or skills, or just catching their attention. So if she is flirting with you, she will try extra hard to look great, show off her assets, brag about her accomplishments, and just catch your attention in a good way.41 Reply- +1 y
Thanks. Great reply as always! 👍
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When I flirt, my sense of humor comes out more, but unfortunate it does the same thing when someone is making me uncomfortable. The difference between the two is when flirting, I take a bit more aggressive approach by being bold in what I am saying. When uncomfortable a lot of my jokes are just very deflecting, usually in an attempt to change the subject.
Flirting comes pretty naturally though for me.01 Reply- +1 y
Lucky ;)
+1 yI don't flirt and keep conversation to a minimum with women I don't know.
It's 2021 , if women wanted to date , they go online to pick and choose.11 Reply- +1 y
I think women find it way harder to trust guys online than in real life.
Staring, touching and not much else. I'm very straightforward and I can tell whether someone likes me or not.
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Doesn't that make them uncomfortable?
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It sounds good to me. Thanks for sharing!
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+1 yI just send a hey, be extra sweet, use this emoji: 🥰❤️ And oh, whenever I reply late, I’ll be like: no, no, not at all, I’m sorry, I’m never too busy to talk to you 🥰
Boom, the guy would be like: oh god ❤️❤️
Lmao, and oh, I compliment them too23 Reply- +1 y
You are sweet, thanks for sharing!
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Lol, no probs. If you wanna flirt, just compliment her. Girls love it when guys compliment them :)
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Taking note 🖊️
+1 yProlonged eye contact with cheeky side smile even if the topic of convo is something completely normal/random. And a few others things but rarely physical touch as I’m always worried about personal boundaries/harassment
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I know that smile :D
+1 y🍌😅
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I become the banana itself.
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LoL 😂
+1 yI'm definitely not the best person to give flirting tips. I don't flirt at all, as I'm very shy and don't wanna come across as a weirdo. I talk to my crushes the same way I talk to everyone else
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This is me :P
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When I open my mouth to speak, even though I mean well, I get so nervous I end up putting my foot in mouth and saying something mean/stupid/boring.
You're shy? But you seem quite confident lol - +1 y
Lets say I'm confident, but at the same time I don't know how to articulate my desire. So I just end staying there saying nothing special, and talking about food.
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More accurately I'm fluent when flirting with a girl while being alone, but in group it changes somehow. Perhaps I overthink it a little bit.
Im just being me. I am naturally a flirt. I don't even know im doing it. It's just how I am. I never force it. Never think about it. Magic just happens.
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I feel very at ease talking with you. Also I find your drive quite appealing.
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That well rounded variety of interests is not by chance.
And just recently I have discovered you have the sexiest face.
You better run into the forest, cause otherwise all guys will be over you. Including me.
Have a nice day 🌈 - +1 y
That's sane. Sometimes I feel MYSELF that everything is too fast these days. To be honest I'm feeling a bit disoriented right now about how to handle sex and relationships.
I spent this weekend, three days, in a yoga festival doing all day yoga. Awesome experience.
There plenty of girls seemed interested in me to certain degree. One told me she wanted to leave her boyfriend for me, other tried to kiss me within a minute.
The truth is I'm very sexy motivated, but at the same almost every situation I find myself for that feels quite odd. Like wanting something sweet, and receiving bunch of sugar.
So I rarely flirt with anyone, or respond to their advances. I'm kind of happy about my capability to dodge bullets, but at the same time kind of frustrated. - +1 y
I am so proud of you Alberto 👏. This is a sign of you knowing your self worth. Observe how people act. Because this is how you will be treated by them when they loose interest. If a woman love bombs you within few moments well then her interest will evaporate like a bad smell. Very quickly. Women who take time to get to know you, and who let you find out who they really are are the ones who are like the expensive perfumes. They will last the longest. Take your time. Work on you. Become better you. And the right one will come to you in due time. The right time. When you are ready.
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It actually helps me a lot when you tell me these kinds of things. It makes it easier for me to act without doubts.
If it gets too annoying, I take two acetaminophen and try to go to sleep.
Lol.36 Reply- +1 y
You quit too soon :P
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Oki 😂
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You can call me "Al"
3.2K opinions shared on Flirting topic. I never do. Never and I see flirting as cheap and inappropriate.
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Any type of flirting?
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@DianaWest
"then how do you find a partner? by sitting in a corner and staring at the floor? "
The question why do I need to find a partner? A woman? I don't need a woman in my life, I have always been single and wish to remain single for life.
No, I won't sit in a corner and stare at the floor, instead I will be working hard at office and giving my contribution to the company I work and make good money.
Hence I am extremely busy in my professional life so I don't have lots of free time to do stupid activities like sitting in the corner and staring at the floor. These are stupid and useless things to do. - +1 y
@DianaWest
"cheap and inappropriate is cheating, not flirting while single."
Yes I know that. While one is single it is not wrong and I never said it is wrong in general. I only said in my view I see it as inappropriate, cheap.
This is my personal belief and that's how it will be. I am leading my life as to what I see, what I believe is correct according to me.
Of course you have the right to your opinion and you can say what you like. You have the right to disagree. Doesn't matter to me.
Have a nice day.
+1 yMeme queen gets all the bois with the noods 🍜 men really want
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Good food is infallible.
+1 yHonestly I’m really bad at flirting lol at least I think I am.
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Time to practice :P
728 opinions shared on Flirting topic. Teasing, touching him more, and just talking for a loooooooooooooong time
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This shall work pretty well :P
+1 yNothing, I tend to avoid that as it has never ever had any positive outcome for me.
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Oh...
+1 yI try smiling more and be attentive to the conversation.
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This seems to be pretty universal.
Regret doing it and wanting to jump off a cliff at least for over the 200th time.
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The adventurous type.
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Too adventurous.
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI use compliments and my other secret that I am not going to divulge to the public.
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Then... let me know in private :P
+1 yHahaha yeaah, I don't know how to actively flirt.
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Perhaps we don't really need to flirt to attract another person...
- 495 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
+1 yI don't do shit. I keep my mouth shut.
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Step one :P
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Haha. I know.
smiles and noticing your eyes
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Ummm
3K opinions shared on Flirting topic. I just let it come out naturally
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I don't know if what I picture is what it is.
I just send romantic message
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Ummm, that's nice.
+1 ySmile
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Yeah, what is sexier than a sincere smile?
+1 yDream on
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Do you need a pillow? ;)
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No thank you
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