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A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. It's more commonly seen in but by no means confined to romantic relationships. Nevertheless, this term does not mean that demisexuals have an incomplete or half-sexuality, nor does it mean that sexual attraction without emotional connection is required for a complete sexuality. In general, demisexuals are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender; however, when a demisexual is emotionally connected to someone else (whether the feelings are romantic love or deep friendship), the demisexual experiences sexual attraction and desire, but only towards the specific partner or partners.

Demisexuality is an umbrella orientation of asexuality. Demisexuals do not experience sexual attraction without a strong emotional connection. In my personal experience, I only become sexually attracted to men. I cannot relate to others when they point out how attractive someone is. I can see that people are aesthetically pleasing, but it means nothing to me without the connection. An "ugly" person and a "hot" person are the same in my eyes until something sets them apart from the rest.

A lot of people say I am just trying to label myself differently and should just admit that I am picky. What do you think?