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I did not make myself very clear when I asked the question, Adults, Do You Check Out Teenagers?

I was referring to underage teenagers, (not teenagers who are also of age.)

Here's an example: My friend has a young teenage girl (she just turned 13) that I sometimes will take shopping downtown. I have noticed that when we are out, a lot of men, and I am referring to men in their sixties and older, will be checking her out quite often.

Some are low-key about it, just taking a glance or so, and some are quite obvious, honking at her as we walk down the sidewalk.

She does not dress provocatively in any way, but she has such a gorgeous face and shapely legs that even though she tries to hide it all with the big hoodie she wears, it's still noticeable. The attention from the men that are old enough to be her grandfather has been causing her to feel self-conscious.

Though she has a somewhat mature looking physique, it's still clearly noticeable that she is a minor.

In the question I asked previously, I mentioned a friend of mine who is in his 60s, who checks out underage teen girls. When I go places with he and his wife, he's oftentimes checks out the girls that walk past him. You think he'd get dizzy with as many times he turns his head around. Ha! His wife doesn't have a problem with it. I asked her about it and she said as long as he doesn't do anything with them and "takes care of himself" when needed, it doesn't bother her.

It made me curious how many other wives think that way, so I started asking my other friends that are married. Out of the eight friends I have asked, only two (that includes the one I mentioned above) said they don't mind if their husband checks out young (underage) teen girls. (I think next I’ll ask the husbands the vise versa question & get their input). Read update section please. I cannot fit it all in this section.

I'm an exotic lover. I love traits in a partner that I will never be able to have or experience. Opposites do it for me. I don't know, I feel like the opposite side of the puzzle fills the empty spaces. Although people more similar are much easier to understand, it's the differences that keep me coming back because I feel complete and like my flaws are complemented by his successes and vice versa.

Example #1: Most people know this about me. I'm latina and I have a really big thing for northern European men. The culture, the languages, the appearance. I grew up speaking Spanish but put me around a blonde guy who is speaking German and you'll see a different side of me. Lol
Example #2: I am not creative AT ALL. I'm a logical thinker and analyzer, so I'm a lover of math and science. Try to get me to paint or play an instrument and I wouldn't know where to start. But people who are more talented in the arts and music draw my attention. I find it cool because it's something I'll never understand. I'm passionate, but I express it in other ways, not through creativity. (This similarity tends to be a good one for me when dating.)

So which one are you? And what do you think of it? Do values come into play, maybe ethics? Or is it just your preference and what's good for you? Or maybe what you prefer on this isn't the best for you?
Let's hear it!