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I think of a relationship as a diet

If you think of physical attraction as the meat in the diet
Meat is good

But if you eat only meat and not fruit and vegetables - you will die from illness

you also need fruit - which to me symbolizes kindness

And you need vegetables - which to me represents humility

And you need grain - which to me represents manual labour and physical work

A relationship requires power and strength to attract but it also requires love and respect and work and no amount of sex appeal or intelligence or love will change that

This is why you could show me the hottest guy on earth and I won't date him unless I see evidence he's got other good qualities too

I think mature people understand this but many teenagers don't understand this cause they don't have the experience of thinking for themselves without parental or societal guidance

I am 26, Aquarius, graphic designer, Filipino/German.
Been in 1st relationship from 15-20 years & 2nd from 20-25.
After breakup I signed up on tinder cuz I am a sexual person.
Met a guy there. He’s 21, Capricorn, Business Student, French/German.
He loves football, guitar, chess and karate.

Had first date at his place for three days by the end of April 2019.
We smoked & had such a great chemistry so we had Sex the first night. He was amazed by the Intensity. Probably because I am more experienced than him, what made it even more enjoyable for me.

The day after, we had casual conversations and he mentioned his “Belgian Girl” he fell in love with. & showed me his ex girlfriends on insta (Was that a strategy?) >stroked my ego and made me fall for him!

Haven’t chatted for a week after our date, then I initiated contact & since then we chat or have phone calls regularly.

He works with his boss on their startup in Africa until January 2020. Because I’m a Graphic Designer I started working for them what actually made up 90% of the contact and conversations.
He also offered me to rent his apartment while he isn’t here. So I moved in July 2019.
He visited me here for a week, because he had to repeat an exam. (I wasn’t the reason for his visit)
He brought me a souvenir bracelet (does it have a meaning?)

Got to know his roommate & she said he was “looking for a relationship but is a player and into taken girls.” His friends like me by the way.
When he and I chat, we never talk about sex. We actually became good friends and he trusts me (after this short time?)
He invited me to join him & his best friend to Africa in January (wouldn’t do that if he’s just into sex?)

Temporarily he’s in Hamburg (550 km away from my location) for three months before he goes back to Africa. He updated his Tinder profile. (Because I’m too far & he‘s too lazy?)
He has to pass by for three days by the end of December 2019, in order to repeat another exam.
He’ll move to France by June 2020 for 2 years.

I met a guy when i was travelling on 2015. He was the first guy that i've ever slept with. We hooked up for two days, and then went our separate ways.

Last month i went to visit him in German (after several failed relationship with another guy - no sex involved), I don't know - maybe i just missed that sex experience with him. And we spent a week together, at my last day I said I like him (and he did not say anything).

When I got back to my country, i texted him "i miss you" and he will reply "i miss you too". And until now we did some sext.

I want to visit him again, but i am afraid that i will fall for him deeper - whereas he might just see me as friends with benefits, and does not see me as potential lover or anything.

Note :
- usually it is me that initiate the texting

- during my time at German, we only stayed at hotel - have sex, watch netflix. One time we did go out to nearby park, and he introduced me to his bestfriend

- there was several times that he left me at the hotel - and he went to party with his friends

- yesterday i found out that he many times comment on this one girl facebook/instagram since 2015 - a month after our first encounter - but never did that on mine. Seems he like this girl

Imagine you knew your partner had done sexual things with other people before they met you, how would you feel hearing about the details of these experiences?

For example, imagine they began casually discussing these experiences with their friends in front of you, or even if your partner began telling you details about it in private. How would you feel about this, would it bother you at all?

This question is inspired because from early on in our relationship, my husband would talk about these things in front of me. And I don't just mean confessing that he'd done stuff, but giving details, even joking about it. A few times even his friends and family have brought the topic up in front of me, and casually chatted about the details while I just sit there awkwardly having to hear it all.

This made me feel very uncomfortable and upset, but my husband and his friends don't understand why and think I should just get over it and get used to listening to it, because it's what they like to talk about.

How would you guys feel in this situation?

['S/O' = Significant other]