Throughout my dating life, I've been a magnet to players. I attracted different types of guys, true, but the players are always out there, hunting.
I had a few bad experiences, but I learned my lessons. I am writing this to warn unexperienced girls from players.
These are a few typical characteristics of a player. It's not surprising that this type of men follow the same patterns, with little creativity.
The first sign is that he avoids specifying a day or time when you can meet.
This would be a torture for him. He has so many options 'out there', so many attractive women, so his 'dates' with you are necessarily unplanned because your are only one of his options. Typically, he will call or text you in the last minute. Another scenario is that he suggests a vague plan. For instance, he would tell you 'let's meet some time this week' and leaves it there.
The Second sign is that a player gets intimate with you very soon, and you probably find yourself so charmed by him.
Unfortunately, players are so brilliant in showering you with affection and care in the beginning, and this tends to translate very fast into intimacy. Most women feel heart-broken when a player pulls away after a few intimate 'dates', or when they indirectly ask for proper dates. This brings us to the third sign.
The third sign is that a player typically avoids showing affection to you in public places.
By affection, I mean something decent for a public place such as holding hands, hugging or so. For him, you are a 'prize', or rather, a prey he hunted down, not a woman he wants to be emotionally connected to. So the ideal date for him is the bedroom, straight. Or, in many cases, he would go out with you, but it should end up in sex. He sees you as a beautiful object to have and ' enjoy', not more than this. He will feel uneasy when you start noticing that this is not right and avoid being intimate with him. He will9 just disappear.
Finally, the last sign of a player is his lifestyle.
If you know early that this guy is 'too social', and he has like 1000 friends who are 'girls', you should run away straight. It's not that girls cannot be friends with men: it's that a guy who knows too many girls is suspicious. Don't think that he will fall for you and 'choose' you. It won't happen.