What is your dream/ideal romantic date you want?

[indian_empress_91]

1. On the rooftop of some really high building with a great view ...like lights( eg Christmas lights) hanging, candles, rose petals...and I wish there could be like this round pillowed bed sitting/ laying down area... dinner, wine, maybe even snacks(popcorn) after eating food or not laying on that bed ^^ . We are on the bed laying down watching the stars talking laughing. He can play music and ask me to dance. Kiss me hold me in close, whisper lovely things to me, and we could keep talking.

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2. Take me out to the movies, or to dinner in a really nice restaurant or a small road trip , then after take me to a beach house where we just get to know each other, take a swim in the ocean, drink hot chocolate and just talk you know. Makeout . Go with the flow and have fun. Dance together.

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3. Take me away to some beautiful country : Italy/Australia/Dubai/ Spain/ Paris france, just explore that country and it's culture food festivals etc... <<< I want a guy to do this for me some day. I know it's not like one date thing but O:)

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4. His apartment or a really nice hotel room , roses, candlelight, movies, cook something together, dance together, do fun things, talk a lot and get to know each other, cuddle and talk as well, kiss me. Just have deep conversations and get to know each other.

So you see pattern in all this.

Let your guard down, have fun, be romantic and loving and sincere. Just be yourself as well. Just make her feel special.

I want where most of the time we get to be alone or be able to focus on each other

[Snow123]

I'd love to go to a quirky/different kind of restaurant first. There's one here (it's Thai) that is in the heart of the city, on the fourth floor of a townhouse-like complex. There's a ton of elaborately draped silks everywhere and huge indoor trees that you go through to get to the sitting area; which is a bunch of cushions and beautiful pillows besides low wooden tables that look out a window over a fantastic street view. So some different type of restaurant than usual, like that one, would be rather nice. Of course filled with easy and colorful conversation throughout the meal (cliche I know ha).

Afterwards, I'd love to go to an aquarium and just stand there in silence watching all the different types of water-dwelling animals.

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Going skiing/snowboarding all day. Towards the end, getting some sort of take-out (like pizza or burgers and fries, etc.), hot chocolate in thermoses, and going up a lift and skiing down to a great spot and just sitting there in the snow talking, and of course, eating. That'd be pretty grand in my book. Once we're dating we can do that again, only make-out a bit in the snow. I've always wanted to do that.

As a side-note: I have given this question way too much thought lol.

[oldanddecrepid]

I like putting together a picnic... some smoked candied salmon, some bread or crackers, salad, a glass of wine each... some chocolate.

Go to the park or take the boat out to my island, walk around in flip flops all day along the shoreline and find clamshells and cool looking rocks.

Set up the double hammock and read to her the afternoon. Make a fire and snuggle with a blanket next to it. Just talk and get to know her.

[PiuBelloAmante]

I pick her up with my red ford ranger pick up truck, its a summer evening, we drive to hill that over looks a city, then we have a picnic, some red wine, cheese grapes

as evening turns to night we lay in the back of the pick up together staring at the stars and the glowing city below us...

[little_bird1]

My best date ever was:
- First we met at the park, had a nice walk
- Then he took me to dinner in my favorite restaurant
- Then we went ice skating (he booked the whole hall just for the two of us and put some really romantic music in the background - he worked there)
- Then we went at the town fortress where there's a beautiful city view and got high as fuck
- And then he finally brought me to his place where we made pancakes, watched a movie and had an amazing sex all night

All of it was his idea and he payed for everything. :)

[crossfyah]

I can give you a good list of things haha

1. Anything to get that Adrenaline rushing, like: Paint Balling, Speed Boating, Dirt Racing, Roller Coaster Rides, etc

2. A road trip, getting lost, going places we've always wanted to go. Like for me it'd be Coachella or something haha. Taking lots of pictures with each other for the future.. if there is one between us 😊💕💍

3. Camping with him and our group of friends. Like a couples retreat. Watching horror movies in the cabin, roasting marshmallows, playing Card Against Humanity and what not.

4. Taking a stroll looking at the beautiful scenery.

5. Going to a show of some sort

6. Going to a bar haha

7. Of he's an amazing guy and he's truly into me then hey, any date would be the ideal date xD

[RaeBae]

I have so many Ideal dates:

- Walk on the beach and then relax and stargaze until the sunrise
- Go the Gym/Spa Together
- Get to know each other at a Coffee shop
- Cooking Lesson/Food Fight at the house
- Go to a professional baseball game
- Take a road trip (after months of dating)
- Couples Karaoke at a Bar
- Go play some Paintball/Airsoft/Lazer Tag
- Go to an Amusement Park
- Go fishing and mudriding
- Chill at home and Play video games
- Go indoor skydiving
- Play Miniature Golf
- Maybe Bowl
- Go iceskating
- Dress up like Superheroes and run around in public acting crazy together lol

I try to avoid the casual dinner and a movie :)

[sineadocl]

The third date I had with my boyfriend of 2 years was pretty much the perfect date... He knew what kind of things I was into and what kind of food I liked and all that cos we were on dates before. So he sent me a text saying to meet him at the train station at 7pm.i had no idea where we were going, we went into town and he got tickets to the comedy club, which started at 10.while we were waiting we went for some drinks and had a meal in a lovely resturant, then when the comedy club was over we went out and had a few cocktails :), that's when he asked me to be his girlfriend :D it was so much fun!

[IndianRose]

Your first date can be something very simple! Some ideas are: going to the park, going out for ice cream or a drink, renting a movie, going to see a movie, going to a fun restaurant or cafe. I don't think first dates should be too fancy schmancy :-)

If you've been dating for a while, you can do the same things but you can also go away for a weekend (to a fun park, explore another city, the beach or just another romantic place), have a picnic, cook a meal or bake cookies together, do nothing together, go walking, go swimming, go shopping, go to the opera or the theater. I'm sure you can come up with some more ideas!

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend lives an hour away. Some time ago I was 10 min away from where he lives for business. After I was done I had an hour until I had to leave.

I took the bus to meet him. He met me at the bus station, hugged me, took my hand and started running... I didn't know where we were going but I love surprises so I just went with it.. We went to this bar we know the owner of, got two beers. Then he took me to this park, it was at sunset. The park had this little mini waterfall thing. We lied on the grass there drinking beer, spotting shapes in the clouds and talking about the stars and their shapes.

It wasn't the perfect date. But it was simple and warm... Keep in mind he only had me for an hour and I wasn't gonna see him for another week at least!

So a party or club wouldn't really be appropriate.

[texan30]

One of the best first dates I've been on was pretty casual. I live near Houston so we went and checked out the museum district and the shops around there, talking and getting to know one another, stopped and checked out the zoo, stopping occasionally to eat the awesome street tacos they have here in Houston (think of those hotdog stands they have in New York, only it's tacos, because Houston is all about Tex-mex) and then that night went to a concert of the Houston Symphony Orchestra at the outdoor theater. It started to rain lightly but we didn't care, it was an awesome day.

[iwannalicku]

my ideal date is dinner and a movie find a nice place to go dancing and afterwards retire to her place and have sex with her all night long unbridled passionate sex in every way possible with her and then afterwards when the sun comes up it's time for me to go home and hopefully I will hear from her later that day and we can start all over I think a woman is beautiful all women are beautiful

[teatea111]

Take him to a potato farm so he can meet my potato family
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JKJK uh I guess dream date would be sneaking up to a rooftop in the city and just sitting over the ledge taking pics of the city skyline at night and talking to each other
Or getting bubble tea thays good too lol

[ashleymaries1990]

Haha dang everybody is so romantic :o I'm amazed well at least the guys are. Honestly a good date for me would just be to talk, relax, chill, and get to know each other. If me and the guy hit it off 100 percent and there's chemistry I call that a good date :) lol. I honestly would just like to hang out at my place, chill, watch movies or play video games I would chose that over eating out because eating out to me seems too formal. So a hang out would be great for me.

[RedSmartie]

I'd love to see a musical. They always tour through my town and are usually pretty easy to get into, even at the last minute. When a guy takes me to a musical, it shows that 1) he appreciates cultured events and 2) he's man enough to go to a musical even though his friends might call him gay for it.

That or a baseball game. It's high-energy and exciting.

Both are kind of different, but they're both things we can go to and watch live and enjoy and appreciate together.

[Rocktees83]

In a garden with some nice flowers , walking through together. There's a lot of nice flowers surrounding us . Then he takes me out to diner , we can eat there, we would both talk and be come, and I could look sexy and nice for him. Next we go In the juzzi and that's where we get comfortable and show passion for love and embrace each other and finally open the champagne bottle and we drink and we call it a night :D.

[LexiNinja]

Somewhere secluded, just me and him, maybe even a drive out into the middle of nowhere..getting to know each other, laughing, playing music, Realistically it'd be a road trip but I know that's not practical aha unless it was a guy I had already known prior. Basically just something random and fun.

[MachineMan]

My ideal first date would be a drive to the beach to watch the sun set with a couple beers then chatting and relaxing for several hours, maybe even sleeping out in the beach afterward (did this unintentionally couple years ago because my car broke down so we were stuck there).

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

We'd meet up early and go to arcades and play videogames with each other and have fun. Then we'd eat at some random casual place and chat for a while, right before catching any type of movie we feel like watching afterwards. Then later I'd take her home and plan on seeing her again if I feel that she liked it.

Do you think there are any girls out there who would be up for this? I haven't looked yet so I don't really know.

[dragonfly6516]

A really long walk. I want to talk and get to know him. I also like to see if they are actually paying attention or just along for the ride. Walking can be very tiring and a huge distraction. If they can keep up mentally and physically, I'm more likely to want a relationship.

[BEatenyou]

Walk in the park with our dogs in the morning. Lunch later at a nice cafe, with fun conversation. Either a poetry slam later before dinner or a coffee shop indie band concert. It would be an all day date, because she is my perfect girl. Our first date would be like if we where already together for years. Yes, there would also be sex.

[lucasnabizada]

Bowling is nice, especially for a retreats date..
In my opinion for a first time thing at least, Dinner tends to be a little too formal if you're young... And Movies is just not the way to go about it, because you can't really talk or interact at all, and you feel your date wasn't really productive, it's more of a second date kinda thing.
Bowling you can just have fun, talk , laugh and goof around all at the same time.

[sodaslut]

baking w no experience is cute bc both of us gotta start from scratch and we both equally suck hahaha ORRR we can go adventure trips - explore nature, visit abandoned places... do crazy shit, or even just chilling at home and binge watch movies while cuddling w each other n food also sounds v goood

[Anonymous]

i just want us to connect and like each other...that can really happen anywhere. I like my first dates to be low key. I don't love to have a meal on a first date. I prefer something like coffee or drinks and then taking a walk after. it's more laid back and we can connect. my last date was a nice restaurant but we just didn't click.