till this day I still can't believe the high level of naiveness the vast majority of women have been projecting, both here in this site and out in real life. This has inspired me to write this mytake.
before I start though I like to point out that nothing that I'm about to say is based on scientific facts. they're all based on my personal experiences in life. I should know because a lot of my male relatives are players and I was raised under a culture that admires player in every way possible.
anyways here are a few hints that you help you identify a player.
his swagger
A player will always act like some sort of underground celebrity, it doesn't take full analysis to notice this. he will usually walk, talk and behave all macho either by
⦁ swinging his arms or tilting his shoulders back and forth he walks
⦁ holding his chest out
⦁ always keeps a poker face
⦁ talks like he's trying to shame or intimidate those around them
⦁ or contrary, he can also sound like watered down social butterfly
⦁ shows contempt towards other men he believe or not on his fellow
⦁ pretends he knows it all and its a pro at everything he does
and many others so called alpha traits. till then just remember that if a man exhibit at least three or more of the traits above or just simply walks or exhibits too much confidence then there is a major possibility that he's a player. players also tend to be pretty enigmatic as well, one minute they can behave like total douchebags but automatically become prince charming if they're sexually interested in you.
Why?
Players are arrogant. A player will always have the need to stand out among crowds and convince those around him (especially women) that he is somehow superior and must eliminate all his competition in order to feel validated by his arrogance. he knows if he succeed at getting the validation that he desperately fiends after it will eventually give him easier access to the pussy.
his vocabulary
this is another obvious one. a player will always talk like he's trying to impress, he will usually use a lot of slangs and sometimes try to sound fancy or even both depending on the situation he's in.
⦁ he always tends to sound very vulgar and careless when he speaks with their friends
⦁ try to sound like prince charming when speaking to women he's sexually interested
⦁ sound like a bully when he talks to folks he looks down upon
and many other. till then always remember that if what a guys says sounds like a perfected human being who dropped out of heaven then there is obviously a chance he is a player.
Why?
Again every player's main interest in life is to impress women with his self-proclaimed special existence. he believes that he's gifted and will always try to proof this by his tendency to try to sweet and fast talk women into false romance.
Style of Dressing/Attires
Players are no different than thots in this area of life. they usually love wearing flashy attires and are obsess with trends such as wearing lots of jewelry, owning iPhones with expensive case, always dressing like they're going to a club or party, having lots of tattoos, showing off lots of skin or wearing expensive trendy shoes.
why?
this is another yet easier method to stand out among crowds. A player always know its far more easier to impress people when you're wearing flashy attires or something that others are after. lets not forget that wearing expensive attires can give you the illusion that you have high wealth, another trait that women seem to love.
Choice of Grooming
Most players tend to be pretty metrosexual in this department. depending on the player himself this one can vary. they can have...
⦁ clean cuts
⦁ lots of hair products
⦁ long hair (usually with a ponytail)
⦁ afros
⦁ exotic corn rolls
and the list goes on. but whatever their preference is just remember that if they show signs of overgrooming then there is a chance he's a pure player.
why?
players know that women dig men with good hygiene. so players obviously take full advantage of this in order to attract and have access to more women.
His Hobbies
Players always want to appear a lot more masculine then what they really are so they tend to prove this to themselves by letting their hobbies do the talking.
a lot of players are really into weightlifting and sports, this is because they always want to be and appear stronger and perfected than those around them. nevertheless whenever they hit the gym or the courtyard they usually do a lot more loitering than actually working out or playing the sport. they tend to always become more active and dedicated into it when there are females watching and will try to disdain and mock the others who they believe aren't performing as well as them.
their style of music can hint this out too. most players tend to not just love listening to trendy and romantic music, but they also tend to worship it and will try to justify it by saying such nonsense like "oh I gotten pussy nonstop after listening to this shit" and whatever; a good artist that most players claim to enjoy is Drake. thanks to his Mr. nice guys lyrical content.
Players also like to frequent clubs, bars or any other social venues. they tend to be heavy drinkers and smokers.
players also take part in things that aren't so masculine as well. just like most typical women most players obsess with social media like FB, Twitter and Instagram and will always have the need to upload everything they do in real life hoping to get likes and attention. they also tend to have lots of followers and the majority of them are glamour, fashion and fitness models.
Why?
players love to partake in activities that make them appear hyper masculine, social, superior and beneficial to women. so they tend to make these activities their main hobbies.
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