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I was getting to know a woman, we were having a good time. We met 3 times. On the third one she took her mask off and we both seemed to want to kiss. I gave her a pat on the head because I felt kind of blocked and unable to express what I feel due to my PTSD, which sometimes blocks me. She smiled and gave me a hug. After that she became distant in texting. Took more time to reply. She started giving excuses when I tried to meet her. We ended up meeting a month later and she huged me at first but then acted very cold and and in the end waved me goodbye from distance. I thought it was my fault for not showing enough interest so I texted her I was attracted to her. She acted shocked and told me she didn't see any sign of my interest when we met, and that she enjoyed being friends. I told her that was something I would not be comfortable with and she told me that I had her number if I wanted to meet as friends. I deleted her number and haven't contacted her anymore.
But was wondering if I should tell her that I didn't express myself fully due to PTSD. Should I? or it's better to move on?

My best friend knows my first ex was my first true love. He also knows I do not like even discussing her, even though it has been 10 years since we broke up. Anyways, my best friend tells me he is in my town and wants me to meet him at a bar and go out for drinks. He tells me there will be one other person joining us and it is someone I know pretty well. I did not question him. We meet up and he tells me she will join us soon. I asked him if I was meeting a new girlfriend of his. He told me he is still single and this meeting is about me meeting her. When the woman approaches, I do not recognize her as my ex because she changed a lot. However, as soon as she started speaking I knew right away. I asked them why they were here. My ex told me she got in contact with my friend in an effort to get back in touch with me. I was pissed. I told them both to fuck off and stormed out. They tried to follow me so I dumped my drink on my best friend and told my ex to go to hell. I refused to talk to him for a while. Did I overreact.

I’m a winger myself. For instance, I’m setting up a date with a beautiful woman next week. I “planned” to meet at a wine tasting place and then to wing it from there. I keep some general ideas of what to do but nothing set in stone. Maybe we would bar hop, stroll around the beautiful streets at this place, or find a nice restaurant to eat, or all three. I never really have it planned out. In my mind, this comes in handy because if we don’t vibe, we can cut the date short without wasting time and money doing things that were already planned.

Some of the women I’ve dated before prefer to know exactly what the date will consist of and exactly what time the date will be over. This just isn’t my style. What about you all?