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I have met my girlfriend's parents for a few times, such on Parents Weekend, Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc. I always feel her mother is a French lady who is very attractive, gorgeous, elegant, pretty, sweet, etc. To be honest, she is one of the most beautiful lady I have ever seen. Also, she does not look like a lady who is in 40s, instead look like a 30-year-old wife.

Some references:
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/flirting/q1751849-is-she-doing-too-aggressively
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/relationships/q1769500-i-met-her-parents-today-do-you-think-i-am-doing-good-with-her-family

Recently, I feel I might be even somewhat "attracted" to her mother, especially I had a dream days ago. In the dream, my girlfriend was in France for summer break, her father was in a business travel, and her siblings were in a summer camp, so then her mother invited me to watch a movie (not a romantic one, it was a horror, and she was quite scared and I was always trying to make her feel less scared), had a lunch, then asked me to stay at her home so that I did not have to drive very late.

That dream is just an example. I always want to see her mother as well as her, such as having a nice dinner together.

Is this normal or weird? Is that common or rare?

And what do you think about it? Can you explain your reason? Thank you!

Why do I have such mentalities? What should I do for that? Do I have to change?

I mean to be honest like everyguy i have needs..

And i can't sext any girl i know... all the girls i know personally see me as the
'nice guy' i bet half of the don't even dream i could have this side to me.

But yeah, they see me as the nice guy, because i treat them nice, and im so so "sweet"
but they never end up chosing me.. so i gave up on trying to have sex and now i just want someone to... help with my needs online, because im so much of a 'nice guy'

And every girl i meet online says the same exact thing, they want to get to know me.. they call me handsome
and when i bring the sexting back up "they want to take it slow and get to know me" because they think im a 'nice guy' and im just tired of it.. i have needs too..

and no this isn't me asking anyone to sext with me, i'm starting to give up on that too. I don't know what i want anymore.. to continue being the nice guy every girl says they want, but don't really want...
Or to be like every other guy that girls have dated, not being patient.. and just don't care

I feel like sometimes when girls say,
"why are all guys the same?, all i want is a real relationship and a good guy"

all they're really trying to say is
"I hope the guy i have now reads this and changes"

and no i dont have anyone i talk to, if i did i wouldn't have this much fustration.