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Should I make the living room into the hangout room for my harem or should I make the bedroom into it? Or, should I just make the hangout room in an empty spare room?

This picture is what I thought for the room. Something around that idea, but not the same setup.

First dates can arouse some anxiety. What will they be like? How will they act? Are they loud and obnoxious? Etc. If you have not previously met them, and have not previously seen them, you have even more reasons to be concerned.

I have had a first date with a woman I met online. Her pictures were fairly cute but when she showed up, it was obvious that those pictures had been taken about a 100 pounds ago! It might not have been such a huge problem if she had been honest up front about her size. I had a first date with a lady who was just as cute as her pictures on POF, but I'm not sure she stopped talking more than 30 seconds during our date. Another first date (the only coffee date I ever had) opened her mouth and it looked like her teeth had not been cleaned or even brushed in 30+ years; the idea of kissing her was disgusting!

Have you had a bad first date experience?

In high school, I was friends with a girl named Laura. She was absolutely beautiful: blond hair, blue eyes, great physique, athletic, friendly, a cheerleader but not pretentious or snobbish. I lusted for her but knew that I was not mature enough to date before I left high school at age 16.

A few years ago, Laura contacted me on Facebook in connection with our 45th high school reunion; I had not attended a reunion since our 5th. I decided to attend because I was divorced, in a failing relationship, and I wanted to see if any of my female classmates might be single and available.

When I met Laura, I was shocked. She had gained so much weight. . . it was like the photo above, except it was real and not just photoshopped. She had developed a medical problem which required her to frequently use systemic steroidal medications, and that had caused tremendous weight gain. She was still nice, sweet, very pleasant, etc. and she was single and seemed to be interested in me but I could not get past the horrible physical transformation. I know - please don't remind me - that I should not judge her solely by her physical appearance, but the idea of lusting for her was impossible to imagine. . . and I felt guilty about that. . . and disappointed. . . and sympathetic about her medical condition.

Have you ever had such an experience?