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Date 1: You go bowling. You start teasingly joke how you will beat him in bowling, you catch him rolling his eyes. He says he thought you would be shorter in person.
Date 2: He's late to your date by 1 hour due to him burning his foot and him being drunk last night.
Date 3: He takes you to a carnival type thing, wins you a pikachu. Then invites his friends after. You tell him you don't feel comfortable meeting them yet but he insist they come.
Date 4: Before the date, he asks you to be his girlfriend while drunk. He's still on the dating website. When you ask why, he says he still wanted to see who he would match with. Tells you he's falling for you hard and he might love you.
Relationship 1: He tells you he's been to jail and has a DUI. He starts touching you and you tell him it's okay for him to do this. He says, I'll touch you there if I want. You guys try to talk a lot on the phone but he ignores/ hangs up while playing computer games.
Realtionship 2: He's constantly drunk and when you bring up something, he hits your car window in frustration. He tells you you're bullshit in a jokingly way due to winning a game. In front of his friends he told you to get your ass back on the game. You noticed he has puke spots from 3 days ago still on his bed from a few days ago.
Relationship 3: He has a picture of a girl he used to have a fling with in his phone recently and says he only hung out with her to make sure she didn't get taken advantaged of and r*ped. He NEVER likes any of your posts on facebook... But he's constantly like another girls stuff. Everything she posts. When you ask him why, he says he doesn't like pictures or go on social media a lot but he's ALWAYS on there.
Realtionship 4: Unknown best friend who is a girl you never met emerges and he starts talking to her a lot.

I tend to be obsessive so if you're tired of my seemingly common questions, then fuck off lol no one is forcing you here.

Anyways, this is related to my other questions.
I remember telling my friend that I would NEVER date guys who aren't scrawny, skinny because that's my preference. And she laughed because people tend to have checklists that they rarely adhere to. My ex wasn't obese, but he wasn't definitely a skinny guy. He was kinda chubby at the start of our relationship and had more boobs than me. At first, it kills me to say this, but I wasn't totally attracted to his body. But I grew to really, really enjoy it. Something prior to dating him I didn't think would happen. I also said I didn't want to date a single father because I didn't want to jeopardize any chances of him reconciling with the mother. And he was a father too. so that's 2 things I'd said I'd never date but still did.

She personally said she'd NEVER fall for a man who was hairy because she didn't like that. She is happily practically married to a man for 10, going on 11 years now who is a human wilderbeast lol And she absolutely loves his body as is.

So GaGgers, my question is do you have any instances where you dated someone who wasn't your preference or the opposite of it? Maybe you like only big boobs but gave small boobs a chance. Or you never wanted to date a single parent but did? Or only tall men but fell for a short guy? etc etc
Was it an "eye opening" experience and it became your preference? Or did you just enjoy it "enough" but you still have your preference? Did you realize that you couldn't just get over it and had to break it off? Are you just not trying because you know you'd not be able to? have you never but are willing to try?

I was passing by my middle school recently with the bus and the 12-14 year old girls that went on looked like they could be 20! They looked older than me tbh. 😩 All the perfect makeup and contouring. And their conversations were like "omg your IG post yesterday, ass looked so fucking big, babe you so thiccc" 😍

*cringed so hard*
Can't stress how true this picture is tbh (I seriously have pics like the top pictures 😅).

Like they look so olddd, Im having 13-14 year old boys hitting on me these days because they think Im probably their age (cause Im short), and when they get to know my age they're like oh shit, really? Wasn't like that AT ALL when I was 13.

Im pretty sure its good to go through the awkward self discovery stage so you eventually become your own person, nowadays these girls are trying to look like every instagram model out there, and look "thic" like they do in the music videos and instagram. To be honest when I was 13 the bodies of women in media didn't even bother me or my friends one bit...

They're just so look and social media obsessed and stressing about everything looking "on fleek", I don't really see them living their kid life while they can and they look like they're in SUCH a damn rush to grow up and being obsessed about being Insta famous and "dating" a guy with a six pack /or a girl with "curves"...

Is this something that happens for every generation or is there something about the age of heavy social media that are changing kids? Will these girls look back at their old pics and look at them the way I look back in my awkward phase or not?

Disclaimer: Yes I know not every preteen and teen out there is like this but many are.