4 Things that Guys don't want to see in a girl!
Okay girls, let's start with a disclaimer! In no way am I proning that this is the exact way a girl should be always and in this case the way they shouldn't be...Everyone is different and you don't need guys in your lives to exist. But this is just, remotely personal things that I don't enjoy in girls, consequently avoiding this WILL be attractive to me(But also to most guys out there...) Being attractive will make your crushes/boyfriends happy- make them happy they'll make you happy! Get it.
So here are a couple non obvious things that fly under your attention radar when interacting with men, that are not...quite valuable to see in a girl. And instead I'll contrast this with what I actually like in a girl.
1) Academically shut off!
So as it turns out, there is this trend of women, who may be attractive or not, but that play dum because they really believe it's attractive. It is not an attractive feature! But these girls do it on purpose, what I really want to talk about is girls who are basically thinking all that's a value is to remain mentally inferior, academically unfulfilled. Maybe some men like girls who don't like to think, not me! I like girls who are able to think critically, discuss of interesting, engaging academic subjects. Debate over things, especially girls who have opinions and stay by them. Just not a girls that's just there...Without thinking. So work your mind! It will serve you well, and it is attractive!
2) Closed Minded
This somewhat relates to the first point, but there is rarely more offputting things in a conversation with a girl who has general, generic, boring beliefs that most people share. AND most of all annoying are girls who are just not open to discussion about it! That don't like to discuss, or think that you are a terrible person for sharing different ideal.That don't like to see the other end of the spectrum, or try to think differently about certain things. In short I like if a girls agrees to disagree and be open about it! None of us has to comply! Just be alright with my beliefs and I will be with yours.
3) Offended easily
SO, I concede this may be somewhat personal but GIRLS!
I make fun of white people, and black people, and grey people and every person I meet around, I make fun of physical attributes, and celebrities, and all political figures! MOST of all I make fun of my buddies and girlfriends and most of all myself! I make fun of everyone and everything alright. I like all humor weather it is weird or stupid etc.... I believe you can make fun of everything if you want to. I don't force girls to laugh, but there's no need to take offense, and if you do it's OK to be offended. Don't be Closed Minded, laugh along for god's sake, don't be a grump about it (depression isn't an attractive quality either BTW)
4) Indecisive (Big one)
This really is hard to perceive so let me just demonstrate it in a conversation.
Guy: " You want to go out tonight!?"
Girl" HEu sure ok."
Guy: "What do you want to do?"
Girl: "I don't know..."
Guy: "Tell me we can do anything!"
Girl: "I don't know, whatever you want to do."
Guy: "O.K Then... Let's get something to eat, what do you want to eat?"
Girl: "I don't know..."
Guy: "WELL what do you like? you like Chinese, you want sushi, or steak, you wanna hang out and order pizza!?"
Girl: "He I don't know, I'm not sure."
Guy: "Well then, you want to do something else then."
Girl: "Sure I guess, I don't really know."
So for the last one as you see in the example, it's something innocent that girls do more than often. And it's something they don't realize. Someone being decided and excited about doing stuff is crucial. I mean sure we all have our bad days when we don't want..to do anything etc, but it's pretty much about everything else as well. Girls BE ASSERTIVE, tell guys "Let's do that", or "Yea that sounds great", "YES that seems fun"..."I saw this place out let's check it out!", or "No I don't feel like doing anything, is that cool with you?" That's fine as well. But just don't be a drag when you are presented with options...If you want to do it say it, if you don't say that to...Because then we guys feel like we're forcing you, or you don't want anything etc, and it's really a deal breaker. Enthusiasm is a powerful tool to be engaging and interesting towards guys and in life in general it's duper attracting.