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I hate to admit but I am a deadbeat. I have no education, work at a dead end job making $21/hour, and I live with my parents. I have absolutely nothing going for me. The reason for this is because I’m borderline mentally handicapped. I was in special Ed classes in school. I had to upgrade after to get a high school diploma. I attended college after the upgrade but didn’t pass. That was 10 years ago. Now my parents are old and on their last breath. I don't know what I’m gonna do when they pass. I know I need an education but if I didn’t pass when I was young, how will I pass now?

My current relationship situation is really bad. Due to low self esteem I’m in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t respect me. All she does is yell at me, verbally abuse me, and emotionally hurt me. Also, I believe she is cheating on me. She’s always talking about her guys friends who she’s too close to. But I stay with her because I struggle with loneliness and my options are slim to none. Plus I’m so emotionally invested the thought of her with another guy hurts me. Sometimes she doesn’t talk to me for days and I get depressed and stop eating. Any suggestions on how I can better myself?

I’m having a girlfriend for the first time at 32, she’s 42. Due to the fact that she’s my first girlfriend I’m very immature and naive. I think like a 12 year old in terms of romance. I don't know if the good outweighs the bad. So in this question I’m gonna share with you the pro and cons.

Pros
1. Food: always cook for me on her days off. Even took the time to learn my favourite recipes.

2. Budgeting: She’s very smart with her money. We both have over 50k saved up with no debt. We have it planned to buy a house together and pay a low interest rate.

3. Open-minded: I can talker her about almost anything and she’s a good listener.

4. Very sharing: She let me borrow her car for 3 weeks when mine got totalled. Every time she gets bonus pay she’s willing to spend on me.

Cons

1. Has temper: Every time she has to explain something to me a second time she screams me. We end up fighting and not talking for days.

2. Conceited: She believes she so hot that every man in the world wants her. Her exact words “I have a big ass and D cup breasts. Every guy wants me”. Women should be confident but this is ridiculous.

3. Verbal/Emotional abuse: She tells me that I’ve never had a girlfriend because I’m socially awkward & weird. And how I’ll never find anyone better than her. And that the only reason she agreed to date me is because I’m handsome with muscles. And if I stop working out she’ll replace me.

4. Shallow: She refuses to date guys her age and only wants younger men. Nothing wrong with dating younger, but refusing to date your own age is dumb.

5. Male friends: She only has 4 female friends, the rest are guys. She even admitted a couple of them want her. She has a male bestie Alex who she texts almost every day. Whenever Alex has a girlfriend he barely texts her and she gets mad. She agreed not to hang out with guy after I told I’m uncomfortable, she said I’m “just being jealous”.

Is this how a relationship is supposed to be? please give me the best advice with your comments.