Search Results: he was the one who cheated on me

2020 - we started dating and came in a serious relationship and that time his best friend let's say xyz was there
2021 - he one day suddenly removed my user ID from his insta bio without informing me after that he confessed to cheating and said me " my ex was the reason why me and she who were best friends broke up" which means he dated his ex while we were in a relationship , " he abruptly cutting my calls because he says that he has two jobs" , " he never calling me back despite saying me that he would ", " 95% of his followers are woman aka ex hookups" , " he follows just one woman on instagram and rest 2-3 meme pages" , " when I went to confront him after a year, he called me immature and abruptly cut the call and he said me that if I was there in person, he would have slapped me for being possesive", all our calls never exceeded 20 seconds but today it went on for 30 minutes where he said me that " he hookups regularly because I don't send him nudes"

So my long distance serious boyfriend follows just one girl ( who lives in the same city as him) on instagram and I created a fake account and I wrote to her " hi bro your bae is cheating on you to be honest" and same day my boyfriend called me after 2 months and talked to me. His family and relatives know about me and he doesn't want to leave me.

We have been on and off for 6 years. After the first year he randomly broke up with me. I saw messages between him and his friend talking about how good looking their past experiences had became and his friend was like shame you’ll have to sleep with your girlfriend (me). He then pleaded for me back. And I saw messages between the same friend saying how amazing looking I was. (This friend tried with me before my boyfriend and I rejected him). His friend was saying yeah she’s so stunning. But they must have known I read their messages. But he also said stop talking like that or I’ll sleep with your girlfriend..

Then he got fed up of me being bothered of this conversation. Then broke up with me. Tried his hardest whenever he was out but kept getting rejected. He finally managed to kiss a girl who was really ugly. He even admitted that but that was his type at the time.

Then I moved on (he made a Facebook status calling me a cheat..) after he broke up with me and tried to move on. He begged for me back then. Stalked me on social media. A month later I gave in and got back with him. It was perfect for a month. (He was still always searching girls up on social media’s)

Then he broke it off again but kept sleeping with me. He finally managed to kiss another girl. Who wasn’t ugly. He felt the need to call me ugly randomly but she didn’t want to sleep with him either so he begged for me back. I found out about this a year later.

It’s always like this. Is he just using me or does he genuinely find me attractive and want me? He always claims we get back together because we can’t help it and that we are soulmates.

Did him and his friend stage that conversation