so you know how he will be super connected a talk for a while, and then seemingly out of nowhere, radio silence? and then give it a month or so and he's back super talkative ready to add you again?
this hot and cold pattern is because his main girl knows. she may not have proof, but her feminen intuition is telling her something is up and she probably quizzes him or confronts him about it. then he has a knee jerk reaction to go block all his side pieces (yes you are probably not the only side piece he has)
imagine being in a relationship, where you KNEW something wasn't right. where you KNEW he was probably cheating just didn't have proof. And he still goes on dates and acts lovey dovey and deep down you know its all an act and you aren't sure if you should leave him completely or try to hang on and see if he changes. Imagine that dispair.
I'm gonna say his main girl has it worse because their relationship has the pretext of monogomy where your relationship with him it is kind of plainly known that your the side piece. you could detach at any moment and have far less baggage than his main girl.
any guy who has two phones should be a red flag though. why are you letting Mr. Fuckboy play with your feelings. leave him behind.
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Good job for blocking him, just focus on your future and getting over him. There are A LOT of other dudes out there who won’t treat you like this or make you feel like they are cheating.
This will make you feel terrible for years to come and will be the first thing you think of when people say “cheating” so talk through this with a female friend IRL that cares about you.
It’s good that you went through this and know the red flags, you’re one step closer to finding your “the one”
Who has it worse? Of course you, and I mean zero offense by that, this is just honesty, woman to woman. You have been the side piece and last resort, over and over. She can’t have it worse bc she doesn’t know. YOU do. And yet you allow yourself to be used and discarded repeatedly by this man who not only will not commit to you, but has not intention to ever do so. My question is, why do that to yourself? Do you really want that outcome where FINALLY, after all the women who got sick of his shit, all the failed relationships and and cheating on other women, you MAY finally be an option? Why is that ok? Why do you think so lowly of yourself that this bottom of the barrel shit is all you deserve? It’s time to embrace yourself honey. Give that broken part of yourself all the nurturing and love that it deserves, heal from your past and uplift yourself because this is NOT it. I’m talking to you as I would to my friends, and it may be kinda harsh but there’s a lot of love behind it mama.
His girlfriend has it worse because in the end, she most likely had no clue what is going on / went on between you two and is probably a really great girlfriend in the end if he shows her off and keeps her around. You on the other hand, you should come to terms with that fact that he isn’t a good guy and just move on. You aren’t with him and will have an easier chance moving forward.
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If you knew you were a side girl, and still kept seeing him.
For one, you’re a piece of shit.
Secondly, you’re also stupid for enabling his shitty behavior and boasting his ego.
I bet you are the kind of girl that bitches about guys saying they are all man hoes.
Nope, on the contrary. You are one, because you knew this guy was cheating on his girl WITH YOU. And cause you where glued to his cock like a magnet to iron. You kept seeing him
I don’t have sympathy for you, also the main chick if she knew he was cheating also.
Brainless womenWhy are you falling in love with a guy who is obviously a piece of shit and doesn't care about you? He's a shady liar and you should have got away from him as fast as possible. Wake up, dummy. You don't need to be treated badly.
Um why are you even bothering with this guy leave him alone
Lol.
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