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Time out. Stop. Dont even go there.. hou really need to stop thinking that way. I've heard you day this many times. You're starting to program yourself for just that you're probably going to get a really really nice guy because you're a very beautiful girl and you're going to bring him off because you're always going to be saying you're cheating on me aren't you stop stop stop it I guarantee you will not be alone when you get out and about you are going to have guys following you around like a little puppy dog at the moment that they do something wrong are you feel suspicious you're going to start grilling them and they're going to have to get defensive and say no I'm not no I'm not and then pretty soon they're just going to get up and walk out the door because you're not going to stop until they say yes I am cheating so stop you need to stop the other thing is to I don't care who it is in this world one of the first things you think about when you get together with somebody's how much you like them how much they like you and then you start with the what if what if this happens what if that happens guess what it's a 50/50 deal you never know what's going to happen you can give somebody All Your Love you can be the best thing ever for them and one day poof they're gone and what are you going to do about it you're going to feel bad you're going to feel sorry you're going to cry you're going to be down and depending on how strong you are what type of person you are you either got to jump back up and go do it again are you just going to sit there and mope and be depressed and feel sorry for yourself well guess what you're bigger than that life is bigger than that. The moment you meet somebody you better stay to yourself it's a 50/50 deal whatever happens happens I'm going to give my 50% I hope that they can give their 50% you can't make anybody love you and if they mess around on you or if they don't want to be with you after you've been with him for so many years let them go you can't make anybody love you why would you even try say guess what leave me motherfuker because I am beautiful and I can get any guy at 1 you going to be a little bit more cautious but that's part of life I can just about guarantee you did you have a couple relationships before you settle down because you're going to have to learn how to even be in a relationship first of all things to do in the things not to do the one thing that you always have to do is believe in yourself no matter what no matter if a guy tells cheat on you believe in yourself let him go thank him because you don't want to be with that person anyway the guy breaks up with you thank him because you don't want to have Your Love or your time wasted a breakup is going to hurt yes but I would rather hurt than be in a miserable relationship to where I'm not happy if you're lonely come chat with me I'll chat with you I'll make you laugh I'll make you cry LOL I'll make you think about things I will be a true friend and remember you're only lonely because that's where you want to be at this given moment in time otherwise you will change it when you're hungry what do you do you get up and you make something to eat when you want to go someplace in your car is out of gas what do you do you go and you get gas so you can drive same thing with being lonely when you're done being lonely you'll go find somebody to chat with you you'll put yourself out there and start exploring the Big World. I could say that I'm lonely too but I'm not I am but I'm not I'm horny and I'm hungry LOL so smile this is just a moment in time and it will pass and another moment will start
Well that's one more relationship than I've had. Lol
I'm single. Do I feel lonely? At times. But you can be in a bad relationship and feel lonely. So I don't let it get me down very often.
If you constantly feel that the person you're with will cheat on you then you either have trust issues or you're clearly with the wrong person. Because a partner if you're communicating this should be doing what he can to alleviate those fears.
I've been single for well over 10 years now and nope, I can happily say I'm not lonely. Why?
I find ways to distract myself and keep busy. From talking to friends and family, to doing things that make me happy, such as exercise, reading, or treating myself occasionally. Being in a relationship is great... if it's one that makes you happy. But if you're in a relationship just because you're lonely, that's not much of a relationship.
I used to be like that when I was younger- and I'd be happy if any guy so much as gave me some attention or wanted to spend time with me.
It was more of a headache than anything and I still ended up lonely most times.
Being lonely isn't all that bad, cheer up... you'll do fine.
It could be worse, you could be like me, having like a freaking ton of relationships in the last 6 years... for me finding them is easy, finding good quality ones are not so easy.
I now know it is me, as I'm the problem and have accepted that, all is well here. ☺
Yes see that’s the thing. There are many boys readily available but they’re not good quality which makes me worry I’ll never find someone I’m satisfied with because I’m picky yet I don’t want to stay alone forever and end up like those bitter old people in their 50s and 60s who regret never having married or having kids because they were too picky in their prime.
I understand, went through a lot just jumping from one to another, now I've been single a lot the last year and a half or so, and I'm loving it... but still looking.
Yeah I guess we just need to tread carefully and make wise decisions by rationalising and thinking practically as well as not ignoring any red flags from the beginning
Yup, I've gone from dating 5 to 7 nights a week to one or two now, take it slower... watch for red flags. I used to date a different guy each night of the week.
Now I just take it slow, eliminate those that just want sex and see where things go.
Thanks for MHO
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I’m content because I’ve learned to spend time with myself. The less we worry about something the faster it arrives. The time you’re spending wondering if you’ll be alone is the time you can discover a new hobby, travel, take a walk at the beach, at your favorite food spot, and learn try something new. A partner isn’t supposed to be your god or healer. Love the time that you have to yourself and the person who comes along will be whole and ready to love as much as you are.
Whenever someone says “I need someone” it’s out of exhaustion, doubt, and hopelessness. While you’re content with being single you’ll certainly have thoughts about being in a relationship but it’s not a necessity. Contentment in your single season is feeling at peace and admitting it would be nice to be in a relationship but I am happy regardless.
Being single has its moments of loneliness. Especially after such a lengthy relationship. But, the truth comes down to who are you when you are alone?
What do you enjoy when you are alone?
Yes, there are fears and anxiety about the next person, but they are not your past. Nor will you forever be alone. Even missing those moments that were shared with someone will happen. But a person needs to be co-independant and know that even with someone its okay to be alone.
Do not fear loneliness, do not fear the next partner. Use your best judgment, don't rush into something, and find enjoyment when alone.
It is temporary and you will your partner.
7 years is an achievement.
Yeah, I’m single and I don’t feel lonely at all. Honestly, I feel really good and never feel lonely in any capacity. I think a lot of this is due to the fact that I have such a healthy and strong family, as well as friends, that I never feel alone even when I literally am sometimes. I always feel as if I have them and they’re always there. When it comes to intimate relationships, I just don’t feel too motivated as of right now to pursue anything with anyone. I mean, if it happens now, let’s say I meet someone and we hit and off, then so be it. My mindset right now is not of “I HAVE to be with someone because I feel lonely, it’s been so long, etc.”
During the holidays which is family time a lot of people feel more lonely and it is natural. Think positive and try to make you happy with all sorts of little things. I'm sure a lot of people love you. As soon as you make yourself happy and think positive, love will come too.
I hope so 🙏🏼
I’m single myself and never feel lonely…. I suggest that if you’ve been in a relationship for that long then you should learn to love yourself again and go out and have fun. You don’t need someone to complete you and make you happy and if you think you do then you need to work on yourself. Don’t rely on someone else to make you happy or to cure your loneliness.
In a very similar position to you.
I don't know what the future holds as I have never not been attractive to others. But I don't seem to get talked to.
I have recently seen men look but they seem hesitant about approaching.
Yes and yes. It feels like everything I do is a bother to someone else because everyone is so busy all the time. No one asks me to hang out, I'm always the one to reach out. Friends who I planned on studying with all bailed last minute for various reasons. It feels like I'm the problem, but I don't know how/why. The person I'm interested in has said they'd love to hang out, but they're busy with stuff, which I understand, but it feels like an excuse to not hang out with me
Yeah. I feel like I wasn't meant to get laid/have a relationship.
I was dating like crazy in elementary school, than after that, NOTHING.
And I feel like I'm at that age where it's damn near impossible to find a girl, because the only single ones are all too young for me.
This is bullshit.
I've never been in a relationship (I'm 48 years old) and I'd always felt lonely, but over the last few months I've totally given up wanting or trying to meet somebody and now I'm the happiest I've been and I don't feel lonely at all any more.
Im single but i never feel lonely. However, it would be nice to have a mutual feeling of love for someone. I hate imbalanced feelings where one of us likes the other more. I haven't had a balanced feeling since like 2020
Single but not lonely I get liking for someone very rarely and things didn't workout this year.
But I won't say I'm anything superior or something it's just by the time I openup things already get changed from other end.
Yes to both, in my case. I can relate to you, too: my worst nightmare would be to end up with a defective or unstable woman who would cheat on me or hurt me.
Bruh chill, you're only 23. You have plenty of time.
Sorry you feel that way, but hang tight , it will happen again, your still very young
Yeah I'm single and yes I've been feeling lonely but iv learned a lot about myself. So I can't really complain.
Been lonely bout 5 years after 17 years relationship. Still haven't moved on. Sucks.
I don't mind being single. Now I actually prefer it.
I do sometimes Miss, so I plug in my earphones and listen to music or just go cycling to push these thoughts out of my mind
Yes I’m single but I have a friends with benefits. No I’m not lonely really happy with my life.
Im single mom of 4 and im happy. My kids are my life and we are doing great!!
I have been living alone for over 5 years now. I'm not lonely though.
Nah i actually feel great yeah i won't lie sometimes its a bit boring but i rather be bored then mad to be honest.
I am happily single and on my purpose. I also date but don’t want the headaches of a relationship.
I’m single and I do get lonely sometimes but My Family and friends keeps me Company
What happened to your 7.5 years relationship? How old are you now,? This world is very vast, you search some partner
I am happy and currently single, not lonely at all.
Dang, Sarah. I'm sorry. :/
It’s ok 😢
[hug]
Am lonely n am okay with it. Though am open to dating or getting to knowing an incoming soul.
I am single and yeah there are times where I do feel lonely
These are the kind of things that happen when you’re a Shrimpo Hunter. Chew We
i'm widowed and yes had someone for 37 years now i don't
You married at 33?
I’m single but I don’t feel lonely.
I am single and I don't feel lonely.
u single... yes
lonely... no
Yes and a deep sadness.
Some of these responses. Gawd, its sad, really.
I am not single but yes I feel lonely
Single yes, lonely no
What happened? Do you wanna talk?
Yes, and fucking yes to the max.
I'm not but I still feel lonley.
Im Single, I feel like I might die alone aswell.
I am single and it sucks i feel lonley
True dating can be tricky
Yea and I know the feeling
Money is the only company I’ll ever need
Become more optimistic
We're in the same situation
Single and lonely.
I'm single but I don't really feel lonely.
Ever tried hooking up with another woman?
No and yes
Yeah. It sucks
Yes always
Yes and yes.
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