How true is this, how often does this happen?

[Anonymous]

some men can’t find any other women so they decided to stick to her first before he plans on cheating when he finds the one who is suitable for him

[RobT312]

Yes. It happens. I was in an unsatisfying relationship, I should have broken it off but was not ready to be alone yet. So…I cheated because the relationship was bad. I should have just been honest and ended it from the start

[Asker]

How would I know I'm suitable for him... how would I know he's happy?

[RobT312]

Yeah that’s a great question!
Communication!
In my case our communication sucked. We never talked about those things which lead to failure.
When couples talk you learn so much about each other …that was my lesson learned from my mistake

[Asker]

Okay what made your relationship so unsatisfying to you?

[RobT312]

No compromises, with anything including sex. Her way or no way. Was Not a good personality match for me

[funtime_01]

Depends on the person.
Been dumped before for a better option before by a girl, she had been seeing someone in the last 2 months of us dating. So you can't discriminate really against one sex.

[BarryLiverstone]

That was me and how I felt in my first relationship. I’ve never cheated but felt I could level up from her.

[BarryLiverstone]

Have you been cheated on?

[Asker]

Yep I have

[BarryLiverstone]

I have as well, it sucks

[BarryLiverstone]

Were you suitable for him?

[Asker]

Apparently not. Like he was a cereal cheater... he couldnt keep it in his pants.

[BarryLiverstone]

Then it’s better you have blocked him and moved on right?

[Asker]

Oh yea for sure. I'm with someone I'm way more compatible with

[BarryLiverstone]

So why ask about him then?

[Asker]

It's not actually about my ex I was just worried if my current man would feel this way and what to look for lol

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh that’s different. How long have you known your boyfriend and what compliments does he give you?

[Asker]

I've known my boyfriend since 2019.
He really makes me want to be even a better person. He calls me beautiful and sexy daily lol... he calls me smart, intelligent, nice, kind, a good person.

[BarryLiverstone]

Sounds like you are in a good relationship. Do you ever want to level up from him?

[Asker]

Not at all. he's a really good guy. I want to see HIM level up. And he is. I'm his support as well

[BarryLiverstone]

Huh? Why do you want him to level up? I’m confused

[Asker]

I'm saying I want what's best for him. I'm leveling up. I want to see myself PROGRESS to the best that I can be. there's no ill intent. I just want to see my baby do the best he can do is all

[Asker]

I want him to reach his goals and to grow as well

[BarryLiverstone]

Ohh. When I said level up I meant find a hotter girl. Sure everyone wants to see progress and improve themselves

[Asker]

Why would I want him with a "hotter" girl? Wtf kind of question is that. Like and just because she could be more beautiful than me doesn't mean she can bring anything close to the table as of what I'm bringing

[BarryLiverstone]

Now you understand why I got confused

[Asker]

No you asked me do I ever want to see him "level" up from me... and when i didn't understand you said do i want to see him with a hotter girl... dude...

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m sorry if my question was out of bounds. I already told you that I was confused. The answer to your question is you learn to trust him over time and communicate to satisfy each other’s needs. If he is fully satisfied he will never cheat on you like your ex did. Does that make sense?

[cryscrys1]

It is very true

[Asker]

How would I know I'm suitable for him... how would I know he's happy?

[anylolone]

More common the other way.

[Anonymous]

false