How common is this?

[Anonymous]

I’m more of a tomboy. My boyfriend is a sensitive, sweet man who likes pretty things. Every year, I court him with pretty artworks, nice flowers and other things. It’s like a role reversal in gender stereotypes when I think about it. He gets excited about his nice bits. Every year, he gets me something practical or sentimental, which I love.

[Oliverlogan263]

This kind of dynamic where the girl is more assertive/practical and the boy is more emotional/artsy actually isn't that uncommon these days! A lot of couples find themselves flipping the typical gender roles in some way.

I have a few guy friends who are total softies and love sentimental stuff, while their girlfriends are more laid back tomboys. And it works great for them! As long as you both feel loved and respected for who you are, that's all that really matters.

It's awesome that you court your boyfriend every year with beautiful gifts - he's a lucky dude to have someone who cares so much to treat him. And it's sweet that he gets you practical or sentimental things too. Shows he really knows you.

I think as society progresses, people are realizing there's no one-size-fits-all for relationships or gender roles. As long as you communicate and support each other's interests, who cares who wears what stereotype hat? You guys sound adorable - keep doing your thing!

[JacobJordan]

Quite uncommon but you both fill the requirement that needs to be in a healthy relationship. You need feminine energy and masculine energy. It doesn't matter who contributes it long as it is there. If you have 2 masculine energies... fail. If you have 2 feminine energies... fail. If you have both... we'll see

[AI Opinion]

Switching traditional roles can add such a delightful spice to a relationship, and it sounds like you two are stirring up a love potion that's uniquely yours! It's not as uncommon as you might think. Many couples thrive by embracing who they genuinely are, rather than fitting into the mold of what society expects. This beautiful exchange of gifts and roles you've described showcases deep understanding and acceptance of each other's personalities. Celebrating your differences and finding joy in the little things that make your partner happy is a secret ingredient to a lasting love story. Keep lovebombing each other with those thoughtful gestures and sentiments. It's the unique quirks in a relationship that make it truly magical. 😉✨

[Anonymous]

The girl next door was a bit of a tomboy and my best friend for years. She came back after the summer looking very fat and wore loose fitting frumpy clothes, the rumour around school was that she was pregnant, I just though too many burgers in california.

I knew she was gifted when one day I called around to her place to hang out like I always did and forgot to knock and there she was standing in her underwear trying to put her new bra on. I just froze like a deer in her headlights. Gifted? She had the biggest pert breasts I have ever seen, like they were giant. I'd only seen nude girls in porn. She was flat chested at the start of the summer as far as I remember and when she came back her chest had exploded. Like she was thinking short skinny little thing with tits too big for her tiny frame. Anyway she screamed for me to get out. She avoided me for a week until she talked to me in the corridor during school, while we were talking I couldn't help getting an erection and she walked away in disgust when she saw that. Pretty soon every time we talked or met up I would get hard. Eventually she said that obviously because I liked her boobs so much I should just jerk off to her topless to get it out of my system and that's how our relationship started. She was still my tomboy best friend only now with big tits.

[DarkLegacy]

Perhaps you are both trans gender