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29F and I’ve always questioned how almost every pretty woman I’ve come across is always in a relationship with an equally attractive guy. When I was chubby younger, I thought losing weight would solve everything and it hasn’t. I feel like regardless of what anyone else says, I’ll always wholeheartedly believe attractive women have no issue finding a partner & they have life easier. I’ve been told I’m attractive by a variety of people for most of my life, even when I was chubby. I’m not thin, 5’7 women’s US 10 so midsize but I have that thicker thigh/flatter stomach build. The only time I get attention from guys I find attractive are on dating apps and that’s not telling in my opinion. I’ve been told this guy looked at me/this guy found me attractive from other people but the guy never makes it known to me. And there’s been very very few times where I would see an attractive guy making eye contact with me or at least caught my gaze but I just look away b/c I don’t see the point. I’m anxious/reserved but a lot of people with anxiety are in fulfilling relationships🤷🏻‍♀️

I met a guy on a forum a couple of years ago and we barely ever talked. We’ve probably only texted 12 times. Randomly he texted me insinuating I want him to meet him. He phrased his sentence as if I was in love with him and needed him to come to where I am and like get a house in my city. Then, not too long after that, he texted me saying he wanted to fly over to my country and take me out. I know that if someone’s a weirdo I can block them. Especially if they are so far away. But I just need to know if that’s odd or suspicious or if they were just trying to be nice? I don’t want this question to make me seem dumb it’s just the fact they one day said something to me making it seem like they thought I needed to be dependent on them and have them move here and assumed I needed to be taken on a date by them that threw me off and I need to know if that’s eerie or if I’m crazy.

We both know a guy from work. Two weeks ago we ask him to take his bike for a ride but he said sorry no. After that day I see him everywhere I go at work he is kind when he talks to me. I don’t know much about him but he seems as good guy whatever yesterday we saw that guy outside and my boyfriend was making jokes about beating him and I said stop it he is a good boy. He changed his face and asked how do you know that? He is a good guy huh? We talked little bit about him. I told that we talked the other day and he fixed his bike and he was like he told you that? He didn’t tell me anything. When we finish talking about that guy my boyfriend started asking about other guys like do you know him? Is he a good guy huh? And I was surprised because he told me he’s not jealous but now he was being. I said babe I was just kidding I didn’t even know about that guy until we ask for his bike. He laughed and said yeah I’m joking too but he kept asking about himself like do you know me? I’m great and I replied him oh my god yes you’re perfect and the best. Later on the day we were texting and I don't know how many times he used ‘good’ he was texting you’re good girl etc…I texted him ‘didn’t think you’d resent this much about that guy lol’ he texted me back ‘lol I just found it funny’. Why he is acting like that?