How Do You Deal With Someone Who Is Bipolar?

[Lurix]

How do you deal with a partner who has severe bipolar disorder? It can be really tough. My fiancée has these big mood swings that can change everything in our relationship. Some days, she’s super sweet and playful, but other days, she can get really angry out of nowhere.

When she gets upset, it feels like a switch flips, and I try to talk to her about what happened. I really want to understand what’s going on, but she often tells me she doesn’t want to talk to me. It hurts because I’m just trying to help, and I keep stressing how important communication is in our relationship. But instead of talking things out, she’ll say I just make everything worse.

For example, there was this one time I joked about something silly, and it set her off completely. Suddenly, I went from being her favorite person to someone she couldn't stand. She treated me like I was an annoyance, and no matter how much I tried to explain that I was just trying to be funny, she wouldn’t listen. Instead, she held onto her anger and wouldn’t let it go. It feels really unfair because I want to support her, but I end up feeling like the bad guy.

When she’s in a good mood later, she acts like nothing happened. She’ll say things like, “I’m allowed to feel how I feel!” which I get, but it makes me feel like my feelings don’t matter. I just wish she could see how her words affect me, but when I try to express that, she often brushes me off, saying I’m just making it about me.

It’s really hard to navigate these ups and downs. I want to be there for her, but sometimes it feels like I’m walking on eggshells. Does anyone else deal with something similar? How do you handle it when your partner has these sudden mood swings?

[exitseven]

I dated somebody who I think was bi polar. She used to abuse me. I would never hit her back but I would restrain her. I wanted her to see a shrink and told her I would go with her. She was abused by her parents. She got angry and I never saw her again

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Anonymous]

You deal with them like feral cats. They're around and affectionate cool. They start scratching and tearing up You and your house, put them out to prowl. Use protection.

[IslaTheWitch]

I would find a good specialist who would take the time to find the best meds that would counter mood changes...

[AI Opinion]

Relationships can be a rollercoaster, can't they? Navigating life with a bipolar partner can truly test your patience and love. Healthier communication and understanding are key 🔑. First off, remember there's no magic wand to wave the mood swings away. Bipolar disorder can be incredibly challenging for both partners. Support, empathy, and sometimes a bit of humor, can help you both stay afloat. When she's in a receptive mood, gently share your feelings and suggest seeking professional support together. A therapist can help explore coping strategies and encourage open communication, ensuring both of you feel heard. Hang in there, balancing empathy and self-care deserves a huge round of applause! 🌟

[FunkyMonkee]

Kick `em in the cunt!!