Search Results: where do i stand

We all know what someone with lots of opinions looks like. It can be difficult to absorb sometimes, but I guess when it tips into being very annoying is when they are stubborn, disrespectful, or always think theirs are right and others' are wrong. Some speak before they think, and figure it out later that they may need to recalibrate or refine their conclusions; but it's the ones that have no flexibility in their thinking that can be problematic.

Then the other type is a person who seems so noncommittal, it's difficult to know what they truly think about anything. Maybe they don't want to offend; maybe they truly don't have an opinion, but you often wonder where they really stand, or what might be revealed later, because they seem so vague and noncommittal.

I'm just curious which people find is the more difficult situation/person.

Please expand on why.

In the holidays I went to a Halloween themed fancy dress party with my friends and friend of friends, at the time I was speaking to a guy who was there and as I was at down with my friends someone who I used to work with ironically started talking to him, despite my friends best efforts to calm me down I stormed over there to tell her to back the fuck off given she knew full well the context and the fact we was speaking! I simply told her to "back off" to which she found this amusing and referenced my previous at which point I pointed out to the crowd *now stopped and watching" the fact she looked like Velma off scooby doo at which point she claimed I "didn't own a pair or socks" so I grabbed the grabbed the right side of her hair and she then stood on my foot to which I lost grip of her hair and she then pushed a full cream cake in my face I coudnt stop coughing and months on people bring it up far often for my liking and it maks me feel its sexism tbh because we see guys argue/fight all the time over petty reaosns and its forgotten about the next week, where as I am still being reimnded of this now!