So I've been friends with this guy for about 6 years. He's a really sweet genuine guy. I've been friends with his sister too who told me this guy has commitment issues. So do I tbh.
There's an age gap im 42 and he's 30. He's only had one brief relationship before me that wasn't positive for him. He and I have liked each other for years
Anyway we had a friends with benefits type situation about a year ago. He's a musician so it was in between lockdowns and he got depressed because his bands couldn't play etc.
A year later we were out for his sisters birthday and he pulled me aside because we had started getting affectionate again so he wanted to talk about this thing between us. We said we had missed each other but he said he wasn't sure he had matured enough for a relationship. He cane over to mine the next weekend and used some pretty strong language while we were getting hot and heavy such as I love you.
His day job is a mechanic and since then I've only seen him when his bands play because the factory were he works, they are moving locations and him. and his dad who he works with are building the new factory themselves and he's been stressed out and exhausted. Workimg 6 days a week.
We have been texting to keep in touch and he told me the factory is just about finished. Sometimes when I've seem him he's been acting hot and cold. We will be st the same band this weekend. Do I ask now that the thing that was stressing him out is almost done I'd he's still interested? He's been under a lot of pressure so how do I ask without being too pushy.
He hasn't mentioned loosing interest and I trust him not to have other women hanging around he just doesn't have the time.
But I just need to know where I stand. I felt like we had a connection so I'd just like to know what he's thinking. When we have texted it's been more like two friends talking
