Is it sexism the stick I get over one "Catfight"/argument I had at a Halloween themed party nearly a year ago? When it happens to guys its forgotten?

[AlexM007]

In the holidays I went to a Halloween themed fancy dress party with my friends and friend of friends, at the time I was speaking to a guy who was there and as I was at down with my friends someone who I used to work with ironically started talking to him, despite my friends best efforts to calm me down I stormed over there to tell her to back the fuck off given she knew full well the context and the fact we was speaking! I simply told her to "back off" to which she found this amusing and referenced my previous at which point I pointed out to the crowd *now stopped and watching" the fact she looked like Velma off scooby doo at which point she claimed I "didn't own a pair or socks" so I grabbed the grabbed the right side of her hair and she then stood on my foot to which I lost grip of her hair and she then pushed a full cream cake in my face I coudnt stop coughing and months on people bring it up far often for my liking and it maks me feel its sexism tbh because we see guys argue/fight all the time over petty reaosns and its forgotten about the next week, where as I am still being reimnded of this now!

Yes it is sexism

No it isn't

[TheMajesticKing777]

No it might just be the whole scene and how it played out, somethings are unforgettable and I feel like maybe this is one of those moments, let's not mention that it probably made an impression so them seeing you probably reminds them of that

[vald9inches]

Yea i would find that annoying as well but if it's your friends bringing it up they could be just teasing you or poking fun of you

[Andres77]

It's the cake.

Iconic cat fight.

Just own it

[_Aragorn]

I think it's just not cool. Just tell them they should quit talking about it.

[I_Can_Help]

Straight up sexism. 1000%