Girls, do you expect a guy you're with to say he loves you every day, that makes you laugh every day and always tries making you happy?

[Anonymous]

Personally, as a guy i dont always want to feel like i'm "on". I hope a girl or woman understands, guys and men have their shitty days where we don't feel like talking. I can't speak on behalf of all guys but its not that i dont value the relationship, its just that i need alone time. Obviously being a hermit, not talking at all is not strengthening a relationship, im just saying a girl can't make it all about her. One thing I can't stand girls who tell me to be funny and entertain them...*smh*

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

"I hope a girl or woman understands, guys and men have their shitty days where we don't feel like talking"...

that's not exclusive to just men.. Anyone can have a bad day and need time to themselves... But, that's something you openly express... And too, sometimes if someone really knows you, they know when to cheer you up, and when to give you the time you need...

But, should never use having a bad day to just ignore someone completely or take your bad mood/bad day out on them...

[kylee2437]

I expect a guy to have their bad days , but that doesn’t give you a right to stone wall the person you are with and treat them less just because you are having a bad day. That sounds like an issue if you direct your bad day at people that are genuine to you. What’s so hard about sending a “I’m sorry I’ve been distant, I’ve been having a rough day, I love you ❤️“ it takes 5 seconds to make your partner feel validated and happy.

[EmmaMary]

I completely reiterate what @kylee2437 has put.

[D4rkd0lly]

Yea I agree with kylee2437, if you do have a bad day just communicate with your partner about it. Plus if you need help feeling better your partner could be an ear to listen to what you need to say.