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Search Results: abusive
Why is it so hard for women to tell the difference between an abusive relationship to a healthy one? ?
Is it no wonder that perhaps women crave abusive men? I mean we all want healthy relationships but Women seem to be the hardest to understand this issue. Why is that?
LadiesFavoriteToy
Xper 7 Age: 23 Is my boyfriend abusive?
Recently I’ve started to wonder if my boyfriend is abusing me. Here are the reasons why: - He engages in constant sex talk, sexualisation, hyper sexuality, saying degrading things about women, strips on video calls,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do a guy who is suffering from a break up wants to trauma bond with me?
So this guy I recently met had a break up 2 months ago and I'm too gonna break up soon with my abusive boyfriend. He told that he wants to trauma bond with me so that it will be easier for both of us to heal faster. He...
Anonymous
(25-29) Can somebody with a troubled background become normal in their lives?
I know somebody who grew up in an abusive home that is now a millionaire in a loving family with offspring and in laws and a very large network of friends, but money does not mean you are fully adapted to a healthy and...
Help, how do I stop obsessing?
For a decade I have rejected this guy because I thought love would be an intense rush or feelings and u realize this is the person I want to be with. And I dated two guys but not him. And I married in a rush. Husband is...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this an unhealthy friendship?
My best friend of 11 years asked me to be her maid of honor. I've witnessed several instances of her partner being abusive such as screaming and cussing at her, threatening to leave, telling her without him she'd end up...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys how do u numb the pain of fvcking up your life forever?
This guy was in love with me 12 years ago. I didn't know him as he was introverted and so was I, so I rejected. On and off we had contact for the last decade, I dated one guy, he dated many girls, I know from other...
Anonymous
(30-35) Would you read this story?
Title: Crumble One night walking home from school, Jenna is raped and almost killed. This traumatic experience makes her turn off from the world around her. Life only seems to get worse when her mother marries an...
Agree or disagree? Sadness is the mind's way of healing from trauma
I was pretty sad recently....what helped me get over it was recognizing that EVERYONE is dealing with the same problems. Everyone has sad moments. That got me thinking about the purpose of sadness. I remembered a saying...
Anonymous
(18-24) Have you ever been healed in a dream?
I had a dream somebody wounded me and was about to kill me before God killed them and in my dream it was a guy that wounded me. Now I have never been in an abusive relationship but I have been in a negligent one where the...
How can I lower my standards so I could find love?
I always fall for handsome looks and date out of my league. I've met plenty of AMAZING men but I find flaws in how they look and then I just end up not liking them. These men show interest, but instead I go for the hot...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should pushing your partner be overlooked?
If a guy pushes you and is verbally abusive , but says at least he doesn't punch or kick me when he's angry , is that a reason to overlook his angry outbursts?
Anonymous
(30-35) Could this guy I'm dating be abusive?
Been dating a guy for 4 months. When I'm with him , he's polite and respectful. But he often seems like a different person in text message. He'll be rude and refer to me as' stupid' or 'daft' and be quite mean with his...
Anonymous
(30-35) I have my ex-fiancé a family heirloom, I want to reach out to buy it back?
Back ground- i dated a man for two year in uni- I was young, he was apathetic and abusive- it ended badly. We haven’t spoken in 10+ years. while we were engaged, I gave him an old military watch that belonged to my...
Twincapersredmomma
Xper 3 Age: 37 Are you happy with what you've accomplished thus far in life?
Personally... I feel I should have done much more. I was raised in an abusive home, it had a destructive effect on me that shattered my confidence. I'd like to think if I'd been raised in a supportive home my life would...
Jmmmfi4
Master Age: 45 Those of us raised in abusive homes, why are we so likely to end up with abusive partners?
How can we stop without giving up and living alone?
Charliefretz329
Guru Age: 43 Is she using me or just thinks I’m not interested?
I’ve made a friend at work. We’re the only ones each others age. She’s from a different state and the conversation and bond between us is great and people assume we’re best friends and customers have called us “partner in...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I a bad person for having a good relationship with my abusive father?
Long story short, my dad drank a lot throughout my childhood. He'd hit me, and the family dog, and often drove drunk with me in the car. I've had to take over the wheel before. Well, he's been sober for 10 years. He's...
Anonymous
(30-35) Asking for advice I guess?
my girlfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. We have had our fair share of differences since we are complete opposites, but there is an undeniable connection between us, almost like a love from another life....
Dogsbestfriend222
Xper 1 Age: 34 