So this guy I recently met had a break up 2 months ago and I'm too gonna break up soon with my abusive boyfriend. He told that he wants to trauma bond with me so that it will be easier for both of us to heal faster. He said we will just talk as friends and nothing more than that. I've told him I will think about it. I'm confused what's happening with me? What should I do? I really need suggestions guys.
Well, that's not what trauma bonding is, actually. Trauma bonding entails that the victim of abuse develops a unhealthy attachment to their abuser. So with that in mind, is he proposing to emulate a victim-abuser-dynamic between you two? Or is it just making both of you into some sort of support system for each other? I'd try to be just friends and a shoulder to cry on, to be honest. People bonding over trauma and with unhealthy coping mechanisms can lead a very destructive path, in the worst case scenario. I think Michelle Carter and Conrad Roy are an example of that.
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