My ex does this too, it sucks because I'm really wanting to move on from him if it's not going to work out but whenever he texts me I get those butterflies in my stomach and makes me wonder if he cares about me and loves me still. I think he's just trying to see if you've moved on or if your still hung up one him, he probably does miss you, but it's not a garuntee he still wants a relationship
If you still want some type of relationship with him (wether it being just friends or trying again), ignore him temporarily, 2-4 weeks. You need to make him miss you and wonder about you. After you feel like you have done the, just start with small talk and move on from there.
If you do not want any type of relationship, then cut all ties completely, have fun and find a new guy!
Hope I can help, GOOD LUCK! (:
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Just keep doing you. He just wants attention, and playing the victim gets him the attention he wants. First off, I am appalled that his parents would get involved in the relationship and not only call you but your parents. If you and him are both adults why would they feel the need to get involved.
Don't worry about him, you just keep on keeping on lady!
It's natural to want the other person to miss you at least a little! It sort of stings when the other person doesn't see to miss a beat, isn't depressed or down, and socializes a lot.
Maybe it's not logical, and yes, he has contradicted what he said to you about how h hopes you move on and so forth..
But who said people were rational during of just after a break-up Especially when this was cause much more by his parents than by himself.
He probably wants to be the good guy even though he ended it.
Just tell him straight up to stop talking to you. At least for a while to give you some time and space
If he doesn't listen just ignore him. He'll get the message and it'll help you move on
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