I was seeing this guy and we ve been on and off for the past 1 year. The main reason being him being a player and constantly talking to girls and unwilling to commit.
He would always try to make me jealous, get upset with me if I didn't chase him and was unhappy at times.
However, when I broke up with him, he was very upset, couldn't concentrate on his work and was unable to focus on his studies. He looked very unhappy and he kept trying to greet me but initially, I was cold towards him because of his disrespectful behaviour.
But eventually, I couldn't go on and I decided to him another chance. He told me he thought it was over for food and how he wanted to move forward but I told him my feelings and he agreed.
We got back and it was ok.
Until I saw him going to a female friends graduation party and after party who was the girlfriend of his close friend. He knows this girl since 2018 as his friend introduced him to her and he was good friends with them, especially the guy.
However, the friend left for Germany to pursue a career there and the girlfriend stayed back in the UK. They were together until a few months ago, the friend cheated on her with another girl and they broke up.
I have seen him with this girl a few times on campus but he told me she was the girlfriend of his friend at that time.
Now, this girl has made her moves on him , and apparently he has started seeing her. He has stopped meeting me and I am utterly confused.
He already knew of this break up and when I broke up with him, he was so upset and totally devastated. When I told him to sever ties with me, he refused and when I spoke to him about how much I was hurt by his behaviour but still wanted to patch up as I really cared and liked him, he quickly agreed to it and we were back to being together. Just 2 days before her graduation ceremony party, he was with me.
Then how can he dump me so fast and move on to her when he had feelings for me?
