Dumped my boyfriend but no reaction?

[Anonymous]

I dated my boyfriend for 5 months. Everything was perfect in the relationship. I never complained to him and respected his space/freedom. We used to always talk a lot and laugh a lot. He used to tell me that I was the one for him, that he will never love another like he loved me, that he can't wait to spend the rest of his life with me. he said he would never take me for granted and that if we ever hit rock bottom that he would always try to make it work. He was truly an amazing boyfriend and to this day I still think he is a kind man. Towards the end of our relationship, he started becoming distant. Wouldn't text me as much and barely made any effort to come see me or contact me. I broke up with him telling him that he was a great guy but the relationship is not what I expected it to be. Instead of me and him progressing, our relationship started to become distant. He didn't react to the break up. Didn't text, call, no communication whatsoever. Now I'm left thinking why he grew distant. He never gave me an explanation. Did he find someone else? Lost interest in me? Needed space because the relationship was getting too serious? Got too comfortable in the relationship because he knows I've been the perfect girlfriend and that I won't get mad at him ignoring me? I'm just so confused. I tried to think of what I did to make him grow distant but I couldn't think of anything because I've been nothing but great to him. was it the lack of communication? or did he just need space to re-evaluate whether he wants to stay in the relationship? If a guy really likes you, wouldn't he fight for you? Or is it just male pride, and he doesn't want to seem needy? Or was he just looking for an opportunity for me to break up with him because he lost interest? At this point, I have no closure.

[Mrsupaakeru]

I'm sorry you didn't get the closure you needed from the relationship, that sucks. Unfortunately except for sympathy you aren't going to find out anything interesting from the people on this site. We have no idea why he didn't care about your relationship. You would have to ask him but he probably won't give you the answers your looking for. Best to resign yourself to not knowing. Take a break and enjoy be single. Time is like morphine it makes things all better!

[nbc5023]

Hard to say, it may be that he has put you behind him or possibly he thinks that if he ignores you, you'll come crawling back to him, anyway I think it is best to just move on.

[AmberChick]

Maybe instead of breaking up with him you should have talked to him first about your guys' issues. Anyway it's done now. He hasn't fought for you so maybe his feelings aren't as strong. Or, as this is more likely, he did really love you but was shocked that you ended it so abruptly. Ask him if you can meet up and talk about what happened and maybe he can give you a second chance. Gl

[AmberChick]

Thanks for B.A.

[Anonymous]

he probably lost interest because if he really like you he will fight for your relationship.. personally I will asks him first what's wrong with him why is he becoming distant.. from there I will based my decision to break up with him or not.