I started dating my boyfriend about three weeks ago. We had an amazing relationship, he was amazing, loving and caring and I really did love him. The biggest flaw that he had that annoyed me at no end, was he usually on days that we weren't spending together ignoring me. I wasn't spamming or anything, like two messages a day, just to catch up. He also, was terrible at listening, since he never even seemed to try. I got annoyed of it and accidentally sent him the snap that I was supposed to send to my cousin. I didn't bark him down, but there I criticized his lack of listening and his ignoring. It wasn't like damn he's the worst boyfriend or anything, just like, I'm a bit upset that he sometimes ignores me etc. Yesterday, I told him by social media, that I was a bit upset with the things that were going on, because it felt like I was doing all of the work and he wasn't really putting any effort. He didn't though know even how, because I was his first girlfriend and he was my first boyfriend. As we were trying to set a meet up, he ignored me, for two hours. I could see he was active on instagram. I became upset again and wanted him to have a taste of his own medicine and ignored him for two hours. When I finally answered him, after him being pissed off for 1,5 hours of me ignoring him back, he just flatly wrote a short message, where he said that he doesn't return my feelings, that I wasn't the one, that he wasn't ready for a girlfriend and that he wants to focus on his school (which is complete bs, he only plays on his playstation 24/7). I have this feeling, that he just broke up with me, because he didn't want to deal with the situation. I have this feeling that he'll come crawling back. I still have feelings for him, but was I asking too much of him? and was he justified, to break up with me, because of this reason? I feel it's a bit unfair, since we were totally like in love three days prior, when we saw the last time. Thanks for the answers in advance!
I’m still not sure, if he just broke up with me just to escape the situation. He was a bit immature and I sincerely think, that he just wanted a quick getaway from the situation. I don’t know if he’ll come crawling back or what? We have to keep in mind that he was my first boyfriend