Boyfriend broke up with me?

[Anonymous]

Boyfriend dumped me a few days ago because of the arguments and my insecurities and accusations. I want him back and I want to show him that we can make it work. His mom told me I should still text him and show up to his job with coffee or stuff he likes and see if that will get him to change his mind. My sister is close with him and my sister asked him if there is still a chance for us to get back together and he stated that he can’t answer that right now and that he wants to be by himself. Do you guys think I will get him back?

[Summeroflove]

I think you got the answer. And that’s no…. Who knows. Anything is possible. But I wouldn’t push it or bother him too much. All you will do is push him farther away.


Move on. Grieve him. And eventually you’ll start to like someone else. It’s just
Not meant to be.

[BourbonAndBacon]

Leave him alone and work on yourself. After a month or two of sorting yourself out reach out. After some time missing you he will appreciate the new you

[HelpfulWoman]

Do NOT just turn up at his job and shit.
I'd say probably not. Because he's going to realise how easy life is without you, and anything you do to force interactions will remind him how much he DOESN'T want the relationship back.

[Asker]

How do I get him to want to work things out?

[HelpfulWoman]

you don't. if you have lots of arguments and insecurities, then you're not ready for that shit and need to work on yourself like another has said

[Asker]

Do you think he will come back around to work it out with me though?

[Pterodon]

You don’t want him back. It’s over permanently and completely and you will not be friends even if he suggests or agrees to it. Once you start breaking up for any reason it’s the beginning of the end. Move on

[slatyb]

Doubtful. Get some counseling to work on your behavior in a relationship.

[JesseP1nk]

Leave him alone for now. Seeing you probably only piss him off. He wants to figure shit out.

[Jmmmfi4]

ITS POSSIBLE I GUESS... WHO KNOWS

[Anonymous]

You're better off taking some time to work on yourself so you don't sabotage your next relationship.

[Unit1]

Break ups are a one way street girl.