I met this guy and instantly he was so interested in me, we got along really well and very soon he asked me to be with him because he felt so strongly for him. I was taken aback but I agreed. He quickly told all of his family about me, introduced me to his friends proudly holding my hand, told everybody about how amazing I was, his family added me on social media and asked about me a lot. I told my family and friends about him. We got close quick, took me on nice dates, I supported him a lot, he wanted to go on holiday with me.
He lives an hour away from me because he's saving up to move back here. He booked an expensive hotel for us and took me out for food, he got angry at any guy checking me out and even argued with one of them, he seemed insecure, and we slept together after just over a month together. It was perfect, he had told me multiple times over weeks I'm one of the only things keeping him happy in his depression right now, he said it was the best sex ever and looked dazed and happy, hours later slipped and told me he loved me and we fell asleep together.
i didn't hear from him for two days so I contacted him confused, suddenly he's not ready for a relationship and he can't afford to keep spending money on dates (never asked him to) and it's not to do with sleeping with home he genuinely saw us as long term he's just 'not ready'. I don't understand and I'm completely broken, he told me I deserve better. Why would he do this?
Most Helpful Guy
The way I see it, his depression is acting up out of the blue. The best thing you can do at this point is to let him know you're there for him, but also give him an ample amount of space.
This is most likely not over yet. He's going through a tough time in his life, and he'll come around once he realises what you really mean to him. Until then, I would advise to do as I stated in the first para.2
Most Helpful Girl
It could be he is at a time in his life where he doesn't know what he wants a person who says you deserve better wldnt day that because if he really cared about you he would be willing to compromise for the sake of making each other happy. It seems like you'll rushed into the relationship if its been only about a mth and he showed you to his fam visa versa it was going to fast. Me personally my boyfriend had to wait a yr before I ever chose to have sex with him only because I wanted to make sure he was in it for me not asa we have sex he leaves. When he proved it and we were still doing great i gave that to him. People dnt understand and will be like why a yr thats crazy but I value myself enough to not jst give it to anyone who sweet talks me... respect yourself2