Help :( my boyfriend whom I give a lot of freedom to, eg he hangs out with friends, goes camping, spends the night at his mates' to play video games etc, I don't get angry or upset, I accept him for that and when we do meet we have the best time. He broke up with me because he was angry that I was holding him back from sleeping around cos he feels like that is the type of person he wants to be and I can't change that. He's already seen prostitutes twice in our relationship and I forgave him cos all men have urges (once during his holidays another one during our fight) so it was understandable. However it upsets me cos I've done everything right it's just he feels he needs to sleep around.
So can someone explain this whole thing?
doesn't make sense!
Most Helpful Guy
He had been playing you and lying to you from the beginning. There was NEVER any loyalty to you from him. He only used you for his own conveniences and to his own personal benefit.
But it's already too late, let him do his own thing, time for you to heal emotionally and when you feel you are ready. Cut off all contact with him, change numbers, phone if you need to, disconnect from him from social media, etc.
If he wants to sleep around good luck, maybe he might just catch some horrible STD like AIDS or knock up some girl, or some girl might just accuse him of rape hehehehe MUWHAHAHWAHWAHHAHAHA!!!
Hey, what goes around comes around. It will all catch up to him.
You're boyfriend really should had been straight up honest that he wanted either an open relationship or to become "friends with benefits" in the very beginning of the relationship, seriously terrible communication or rather miscommunication he has here. I mean if that's what he did clearly state from the beginning that's who he is and what he wanted then it would have been on you to decide if you're ok with it or if you're NOT ok with it.
Again, shit happened. It's in the past now. Just let it go because you can't change the past as it already has happened. You can only keep going forward and moving forward.0
Most Helpful Girl
Am I the only one who thinks seeing prostitutes when you're in a relationship isn't "understandable" or did we all skim over that?
There's nothing you could have done or can currently do, the guy's a horn dog and doesn't want a monogamous relationship. You're better off without him, he sounds like a hack.3
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