My boyfriend broke up with me?

[Anonymous]

He said the relationship wasn't making sense and I was confused as to why he said that because I saw him two days before and if that's how he was feeling why couldn't he talk to me? So Sunday night I got more of an explanation he said that he called off the relationship because he's unable to give me what I want as yet... I thought it was because we don't see each other often because we work at different places and our schedules are different :( I wish he had spoken to me about it and maybe we could've worked something out.. I really miss him sigh and I still love him... What should I do?

[TommyMountainFigure]

I know this is tough, but if you have to force someone to be with you, trust me, it isn't worth trying.

If he believes it wasn't making sense, let him go, play loud and happy music.. not the miserable stuff that people swear is good. It isn't. Don't allow yourself to be a victim here. Rebuild, go round to family and friends, get out as much as you can. The quicker you do that? The quicker you will find happiness!

[Asker]

Thank you.

[TommyMountainFigure]

You're very welcome

[Asker]

Okay

[boggboss]

Can't really do anything havr y tried talking to him about it and telling him u didn't feel that way apart from that norgung can be done

[Asker]

Yes I've tired and that's explanation I got... he said he's giving me the opportunity to do what I have to do or find something that makes me happy.

[Abbycado]

You can't really do anything if he has made up his mind about things. You can't and shouldn't force a relationship. I know, it sucks.

[Asker]

Yes it does... thanks for sharing

[AI Opinion]

Navigating through the murky waters of a breakup can be tricky, especially when you're still swimming in the sea of love for the other person. It sounds like your ex-boyfriend threw you a curveball with his reasoning, and it's totally normal to wish for a chat that could've maybe ironed things out. 😌 But here’s the deal: focus on what you can control. You can't make someone ready or change their mind if they've decided they can't give you what you want. It's like trying to fit a square peg in a round hole—frustrating and futile.

Here's a flirtatious suggestion, sprinkle a little self-love your way! Think of it as dating yourself. Rediscover what makes you tick, try new hobbies, or revisit old ones. This is your time to shine solo! Meanwhile, keep the lines of communication with your ex polite and minimal. Who knows? With time, perspectives might change, but if they don't, remember you're working on becoming an even more fabulous version of yourself. And hey, the love story you deserve is waiting for you, just around the corner! 💫

[Asker]

Awww thank you.