clearly you dont mean to him as much as you hoped or as much as he claims...
1) if he felt strongly about you he wouldn't have cheated..
2) if he felt strongly about you he wouldn't have her number
3) if he was any bit interested in you he wouldn't have lied...
he still has her number cos he intends on keeping going behind your back and seeing her, i bet the only reason why he confessed was cos you had proof or he thought you had proof... and that he had no other options, he chose to admit to convince you that you will believe him when he said he wouldn't see her again, chances are he has a back up alias on social media with her on it...
you are to him the sure thing, you are the safety net... this other woman is the bit of fun that he is going for you are the woman where the home is kept tidy and (if any kids) the family is looked after... you are who keeps his bed warm when he chooses to share it... and the one who keeps him looking honest around his family and friends, and even coworkers... i would cut your losses and boot him out cos if he can lie to you over that so easily, he won't stop lying until he's lost everything... and even then chances are he will do what he can to make himself look the victim...
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Dump him. He kept her number so he can keep banging her.
How did you discover that he still has her number? Did you ask him? Did you look at his phone without permission? And, did you ask him why he still has her number? If so, what did he say? How did you find out he cheated? Did he confess to cheating because you asked or did he come clean on his own or was he caught in the act? Now that you know he's cheating and her name clearly he knows you will catch him cheating again by checking his and her social media sites. You should be asking why he cheated, has he cheated on you before and/or in previous relationships, and if so, how many times? You know the saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater!"
Girl why are you still with him? DUMP him. You deserve better. Please.
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I really can't say anything. You know him better. You should confront him.
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