Why do guys have no conscience when they reject a girl just move on the next girl without feeling guilt?

[Anonymous]

i have has nothing but bad experience with men I mean really bad I end have counselling over it .these always seem to boast of there stud status to me all of them have done this I am victim of rejection I end up suffering very badly from rejection I end up very much alone all by self .but theses guys just don't care they reject me and next thing I know there with another girl and another one another one .

but I got rejected but am still alone and by my self very angry and very much pain from the rejection .theses guys feel nothing when they do it . they just off with out conscience as what they said to that specific girl and follow month goes find another other one he hurted get forgotten about it .she ends up on her own with no one .he gets to play with zero conscience with huge smile on his face . how can theses guys be so cold and heart less not even feel a thing for girl who feelings he hurted ,it means nothing to him he just moves on to next one . I don't understand this cold blooded behavior and no conscience and no heart .poor girl get reject end up with nothing just very sad and broken heart and very much in pain . thses guys have no problem finding women letting this girl know Pisces of information that she nothing .other women are worth more then she is . which is very cold very cold .yet dirt bags can find women after what they have just done they get rejected at they know women fancy them so they have no worries about being alone .but rejected ends with nothing she was hurt the party with no value at all . guys have no conscience what ever for damage they do none just move on the next one cold cold behavior . this has happen me for last 13 years the exact situation over and over again its like history relive it over and over again !

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how well those guys don;t get rejected on no it poor innocent girl who get bullet and he goes play with another girl but he doesn't care with he does another person self estreem once his own does not get damage .they deserve nothing they ass cold blooded snake are warmer in comparison to them . yet these prick don't get rejected at all . they don't derve it not one bit acept by other women no way .they should suffer for damage they cause suffer painfully

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it sad nice decent girls taken for fool by Pisces of scum by guys like that poor decent girls who are nice and honest mean well do be lied to and deceived to .what worse theses girls like them with all honesty they think decent guys when there not .players work every fast very fast at inmate with girls they just meet like half hour ago he has them eating out there hands,to them it mean nothing nothing just another girl and another day its means nothing .most guy appericate nice girl like them.

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why would they need women are fish plentiful what one NOTHING . they don't care and don't mind if women were as cold as men women would better off .we would not care about there feeling just to move to next one just they do.as far I am concerned men don't have feelings and should treated like so like stone roughly treated toss back in ocean like piece crap that they are stone cold like ice quiet as selfish spoilt kid

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its not fair I am unattractive looking female but I still have feelings and needs why should get every thing .men thinks women have feelings unless there chose women to have feeling when ever it suits them treated like trash rest of the time

[Phoenix1991]

Just like what nomad and wicky said, Whether you want to admit or not, Males are not as emotional as women.

Men know how to keep personal feelings aside in situations like that. In the dating world, people go after what they want and do what's necessary to achieve that, including hooking up, to casual dating, or relationships. Sometimes people will clash with others who don't share the same goals.

Most of the time Men are the ones approaching women and its up to the woman to accept him or reject him. When Men get rejected, it does a blow to their confidence a little bit, and there's nothing people can do about that. Its the way of the world, Dating world is like competition with everyone, not everyone is honorable and has sportsmanship.

Regarding to heart breaks from bad relationships, sh*t happens, WE all get our ass kicked in life, its up to us to stand back up on your feet after we fall down. Those who stand back up and keep moving forward in the same route after getting hurt, they have a powerful heart, because others would avoid relationships because of one bad break up.

Choose your path, decide what you want, become smarter, focus on yourself, and go after it as if was right in front of you.

[Asker]

guys like that are lucky jerks with no soul and no heart deserve nothing but to left on there own for rest of there live being complete prick selfish and cold .they deserve nothing and get every thing its not right and its not fair .there pricks

[Phoenix1991]

you have to learn to respect other peoples lifestyles, even if its something you don't completely agree on. You can't be bitter and expect to move on, People want to hook up over dating, let them be them. Different strokes for different folks.

[Asker]

playing people for fool is not lifestyle immoral and wrong its not bloody lifestyle it heartless cold ruthless game .i don't thinks it fair why they should get away with it

[Asker]

i will never respect player never ever there cold blooed liar with no hearts and no soul I hope they place in hell i.ll spit in his face first .like they do mine .

[Asker]

are you kidding me respect him how him respecting other people feelings not his own selfish pricks .you having me aren;t players are scum pure scum they treat women like play things liar they rejected people like they nothing. when its them who are nothing but evil .pure selfish they care about no one but there themselves . selfish creeps .they never get reject but there can hurt others get away with it ,no way in hell

[Phoenix1991]

uh sure..

[NomadATL]

Because a million women have done it to them.

Stop and take a hard look at yourself, is there anything you need to improve? Are you dull? boring? Overweight? Style?

Use this time to focus 100% on yourself, before you know it guys will be hounding after you.

Take it from an ex fat kid, I dropped 100lbs and picked up 100 numbers in a week.

[Asker]

all show and no go .women suffer and men get to play that's real fair it is truly shallow man world

[Asker]

i am so angry why they should have they want I suffer at there expense its so not fair I am still suffer they have had lot of women already I am still on my own .i get rejected always they always get what they every single time with out its not fair its so not fair its so not fair .its not fair they don't deserve it at all .they just don.t

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Try to find someone who actually cares and wants to be with you.

Just because you step up to ask someone - doesn't mean they'll say yes.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

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Lol you need some thicker skin missy - don't let people get to you so much. So what they said no - if they play women and treat them like they mean nothing and are just a piece of meat -

Then why the hell do you want one of those men anyway?

Perhaps NO was the best thing they told you.

[Asker]

thats not the point

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

That is the point - your just trying to emphasize these men are so horrible and it's not fair they treat you how they did and hurt your confidence - yea what they did wasn't nice but come on -you need to stop letting it get to you so much. Rejection happens; if you say these men play women left and right - then they would have just cheatead on you with some other girl anyway if they would have got with you.

Why would you want to someone more cold blooded than a snake anyway?

-_-

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

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Because there are mean people out there - that's just common knowledge. I don't know why some people treat others' badly like that - even if the other person is good / innocent all you said. People have their wicked reasons - my guess is they didn't care for a real relationship and just wanted to use the innocent girls who are more nieve to fall for their tricks.

stop falling for their tricks.

[Asker]

i have rejected entire life I am going end up on my own not by my choice these bastards take for granted some thing I wanted for year they take for granted its so not fair they don't deserve to be loved they just don't

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

I agree - and they will definitely get what's coming to them for the hurt they've caused.

I doubt you'll end up alone ultimately - if your as sweet and kind and all that good stuff as you believe you are - and I'm sure others have told you you are - you will find a partner who can reciprocate the same.

The hardest part is just finding those good guys.

[Asker]

i hope they do they take people for granted and makes idiots out them good people who did nothing to them not single thing to lied to and make fall for guy who zero interested in her just getting his quick fix like drug . I have been hurted so many time by guys like them I am very afraid to bother any more .thses lad don't care they just move to next 20 girls next 20 and next 20.no shut down .i hope pay back is coming very soon those ****s .

[Asker]

all I meet are guy who are interested in me and couldn't care less about me I have never had boyfriend and I never been kiss at my age.guys I tend to meet or like are nasty pro players or just guys who are not interested in me end of . I mean never. there this guys have so easy it makes so sick and angry I long to find love they get it love and affection every day from women and it mean nothing to him ,and it means the world to me mean nothing to them !

[Asker]

but they never alone like me every day .they always some girl who fancy them they never have to worry about rejection or being alone on Saturday night .no it nice girls like me finished old single alone very unloved and very forgotten like I have been since I was 18 years old its so not fair jsut so not fair I deserve better so much better after all I have through I deserve better life and nice guy who cares ,but all I end up is guys like them .and guys who hate me

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Hmm well I wonder why you keep attracting those types of guys? If they're not your type why are those the other men that seem to flock around you? Maybe you should branch out a bit past your comfort zone - hell take a break from dating for a little while to recover from the hurt - and then be more analytical of the men you meet. Don't fall in love fast - be cautious, don't trust so easily.

[Asker]

i seem to like dangerous type like them .no guys flock they last time a guy it was 10 year ago when last time flirt here is the kickier he was player 1st guy that claimed to like me was player but never really never admit it .he had girls the list of the phone book.he came to last I told no he kept coming after me when I said no

[Asker]

guys are so cruel so very cruel don't care not one bit

[Dbdhdhdjd]

Women can be cruel to. Stall us out on that generalized bullshit.

[gonyr]

So they should pity date you? If a person (not just guys) doesn't like another person in that way they aren't gonna date them. Its not they're fault.

Maybe instead of being mad at them for dating a girl they like instead of one they don't you should look at yourself and your approach to dating and figure out what you could do better or different.

[Asker]

nothing is guy fault is just innocent by standard being cruel mean liar who like used wome for there person use bit like toilet !

[Asker]

little bit more of intelligent answers

[Asker]

i don't fin this one bit funny not one bit that they get away with behavior the likes of me ends up on my own for good that low life players keeps getting accepted by women it no woundering they so happy while the people they hurt suffer .rejected like me have no chnace the likes of him keep picking good looking women and getting accept not rejected they should get rejected time time like they do others who suit him its only fiar why should I suffer they don't its not fair

[Asker]

he let me think nice guy and sweet and caring he was looking for some one ,an age was not problem ,that he was such shy and quiet and doesn't go out much ,he never let on he was player at all 1st ,when he was ling every thing he not shy and not quiet and he always out in house parties ,pubs , nightclubs all lies liar and good one .he has been more women then I had hot dinners ,i am so angry so very angry !. no morlals none he feels nothing for any them he just uses them .

[Asker]

he doesn't even feel bad for what he doing not one bit he just keeps doing it .never feel sorry or badhe made feel quilty for no reason to get rid of me .and no conscince he move another girl week later week not even full week he move on he told some rubbish she perfect for him 3 months down the line he was photo with 5 girls with two thumbs sticking up with giant grin his face and another 3 moths down he was in pub his two arms wrap around attractive strange girl

in pub .

[Asker]

after just meeting her he was all over her like rash he meet in pub then he nightclub with her got pissed with her say after it was long kissing session with her before he went home .yeah he real nice guy he has rest of girls as back up in case gets bord at night some girl to chat like spares !

some much girl being perfect from I suppose the rest of the girls were perfect for him too ! well I can't see no more what he up to some how i,d say it no different to what he already doing any way

[Asker]

its not on what he doing .no experience with women he has more then most guys I know of a lot older too then him .i can not understand this behavior I just can't well to me finding one guy to like means lot to me to him it means nothing for girl like nothing not bloody thing just getting more experience an knots in his belt .what kills me it mean nothing abosuly nothing for nice girl to like him it mean nothing just another knot nothing cold blooded nothing it mean nothing for nice girl .

[gonyr]

Ok not gonna lie I didn't read all of that. So, you fell for the tricks of a scumbag. Stop the presses.



A lot of guys are trying to get with a girl. This isn't news.

Maybe instead of sleeping with a guy who is just nice you can just hang out and see if they actually like you?

[Asker]

some how I am not going get the answer I am looking so desperately please how do I find nice guy not those players who find love easy take it for granted its not fair I am really upset please please guy please help me

[Asker]

they find love instantly take irt for granted what drives me so mad .its not fair others work so hard to get they take if for granted now that's just not fair and not just not right .will they find conscience why do nice guys come players why when they know hurting people and hurting and rejection other threre own like they done to made me I can never repair never ever repair

[Asker]

do they care at all for what they do do they .hurt they cause I hope they pay for what they by some weird it come back at him full force he ultimate price for his games

[gonyr]

Judging by the way you type, and the amount you type, this guy drove you crazy. If he treated youi this badly, is HE worth getting so upset over

[Asker]

it just that he deceived me thact shy around women I have seen him photos no shyness its full physical and flirting with girls no holes bared .thats not what i,d called shy he very company with physical in every way dancing kissing and holding hands yeah real shy .most guys that I have know have been with few girl may be 3 or 4 with him its 10 and 11 women + .to me shy guy find it hard to talk to women don't have the courage to ask girl to dance that's not shy he made a fool out of me .

[gonyr]

Well deep down he's probably just as insecure with himself as your making yourself out to be right now. He probably feels the urge to bang as many girls as possible so people don't thinlk he's gay or something. Idk. But who cares. He's only making a fool out off you if you act like this

[Asker]

sorry are explain away behavior I hope because dumbness answer I have ever heard so dumb obviously male .with no morals o you think alright women to used just because low self esteem mr go away you check you head there some thing lose in it yeah you morals all wrong ,

get you head check mate I am not joking

[Asker]

now girls you like been made fool out of by guys like this I find some male here write very retarded it like saying its OK women are play thing for them .male think OK to treat women like sh*t . believe mate its not .so boys brains and morals before I get really upset . no more dumb shallow retard answers from the male no brain like guy it OK for women used .that guy very angry very angry

[Asker]

why do I have to be one to end on her own old grey haired single old woman who never had single boyfriend and never offer even kiss why did I have end like this most people take it for granted I deserve it more then people who take for granted daily me i,d be lucky to guy I like to like me theses guys just don't care take it for granted its so not fair so so so not fair I have long for boyfreind since I was 18 years old but no guy bother all I was joke to them .these lads take it for granted

[Asker]

i have no clue all I ever had was bad experiences with guys now I am forever having no clue .all I meet guys who have better luck then me and more experience its so not fair it really isn't

[Asker]

gonyr cheeky low life like you should not give advice full of cheek I don't drink .i find you very insulting and offensive .may be you should look at you self .full smartness and no backbone .i don't need from kid like you who is still in short pants .

[Dbdhdhdjd]

This is a real honest response.

What I cind hilarious though is the downvote. Women literally know what you mean when you say if they don't want to date you its not their fault. Women get this because a lot of women date guys and take it a little far and then dump them as well. Only if we complain abiut being used (like this chick is doing) we all hate women. Lol

The point of view of a woman is completely self absorbed and a waste to even consider listening to unless we start hearing them take responsibility for their end of the relationship and the actions they took to get there.

[wickys]

*Some guys

Don't generalize everyone when it happened to you only a few times.

In this case it's your fault for dating those 'hard-asses'

I'm sorry your choice to date a bad boy ended in the bad boy treating you badly.

[Asker]

this is not helping at all still doesn't explain this cold blooded behavior how yee woman doing that yee kicking yee teeth like that and see how emotional yee are then .why they should get away with it .he still end up happy and rejected end up sad .i don't like cold blooded animals like that .do yee think fair treatment becasue guy got old fashioned dose of his medince will how much his ego will take it bit like kick in groin see how much pain they can take .men dish it not take it .

[Dbdhdhdjd]

You really need to take responsibility for yourself. I promise you you'll never be happy (nor should you deserve to be, how does it feel to have this said to you?) if you keep blaming men for the common denominator problem, which is you.

[kheserthorpe]

Most guys aren't like this. Players are.

It sounds like you are going after the same type of men all the time.

[Asker]

its not fair they find love all the time they don't deserve it .they just don't why should they have it why .

the minute o get rejected they find another moth later he doesn't get rejected but I do I suffer I find no one ,that girl mean nothing to him all she is bit of fun noting more its not fair its so not fair .they should get rejected and see how it feels but men like this have no heart feel nothing what the point .like beating my head off a wall I can't get even either he still get to play

[kheserthorpe]

You're right. Men like that have few feelings for the women they are casually dating. However you're talking about a small group of men - but the men who typically are the most attractive. You're going after guys who aren't interested in a serious relationship.

[Asker]

they have no feeling few feeling try none .i meet this guy he was rotten he said he was hot young stud with 3 month he was in photo with 5 girls in Holland and 3 further down the line he was pub kissing strange girl he meet pub ,before that he ex girfrend and another girl he was in very cosy place in private and he arms around 4 or 5 more girls . he cares none they sized up and profiled

he very shallow too.he profiled them he never get rejected he reject a girl he doesn't care she forgotten

[kheserthorpe]

Anyone who tells you they are a hot young stud likely is trying to tell you that they are NOT GOING TO BE MONOGAMOUS. That's what 'stud' means. It would be like saying 'this girl told me she was a filthy slut and then I found out she slept with like 5 guys'.

[Asker]

some how I don;t he telling me that .i think full of himself he nothing with without his good looking face nothing .watch you language mate . even my brother said he proper prick . do you think that's OK to guy a**hole like that .well I don't

[kheserthorpe]

Yes, he's full of himself. Yes, its based on his looks. But seriously, guys looking for relationships would simply not say what he said. He is a player, and advertises the fact. Guys like that do not want to settle down with anyone. If you keep going for guys like that, you're going to get the same result.

[Asker]

but he doesn't tell other girls this .only me it seems .he very pro player .he gave this jaron he was looking for relationship when I added him first when he insult me week later he was chatting another girl and no though for my feelings and how upset I am .how hurt I felt and lies he told he told he was shy and quiet and had no experience pure black lies pure lies .i have players but not this extreme level he is 10

[kheserthorpe]

if he told you he was looking for a relationship when he wasn't, then he's scum. I'm sorry you ran into him.

[Asker]

i have known players they were all cruel to me .he left single alone they go off with other girls.this guy is Argentina guy not my own nationality .he has been with quiet few girls because good looking its only his good looks get these women and nothing else . in lot way I hope some bad happen his face like its scared or damage so he'll be nice person not player that cruel and unkind

[kheserthorpe]

I can't comment that much on international players. In north America and I think the u.k., most guys who get laid a lot do NOT pretend to want relationships. There are plenty of women looking for casual sex and mentioning relationships scares those women OFF while only attracting girls who will stalk them afterward. So most playboy type guys - once they're in their 20's at least, are very open about being into casual sex and nothing more.

[Asker]

if he told you he was looking for a relationship when he wasn't, then he's scum. I'm sorry you ran into him. me too .i never being played like this before I am so damage and so upset I am so angry hated builds inside every day that he still doing the type of stuff unsuspecting girls who thinks he geuine .when he all doing he fulling his own needs and boating his own self estreeem

i bet he wakes every morning with huge grin on face and yet another girl about be made fool out of today

[Asker]

he scum he doesn't sleep with them .even though he called himself stud .no woman like being played like what he did to me and others like him should craw back under rocks and stay there and rot in to ground they were born .he made fool and waked came another girl and another and another and another he will never stop unless some thing happen his pretty face which I hope it does as pay back for the damage he caused and lies he told me and others .he doesn't love he just doesn't .

[Asker]

i have seen photos of him with countless women he going them like you go through slice pan or socks .he all over them each and every one .with huge grin on his face.he dancing and flirting and with arms around them and face to face with him sticking up thumb and big smile being very inmate with every one of them .i never seen that type of guy in my own country .few thinks there players and actual

[Anonymous]

I agree wit u their