How can I lower my standards so I could find love?

[Anonymous]

I always fall for handsome looks and date out of my league. I've met plenty of AMAZING men but I find flaws in how they look and then I just end up not liking them. These men show interest, but instead I go for the hot unavailable guys that are either abusive, can't commit or cheat. I tried my best to like men that were ideal but not too handsome in my eyes, and I always fail and end up avoiding them. My sister can date men she doesn't find really attractive as long as they have good personality and money, but I can't for some reason

[inhua]

you can't. attraction is purely biological. not political. attraction can not be forced

sure you can try and convince yourself or have someone convince you you're attracted to Shrek or Quasimodo but that doesn't work

when society says men are more shallow than women, I don't buy it one bit. women can see beauty flaws in themselves, best believe they see beauty flaws in men

[Asker]

what can I do about it? like if i like a handsome man ofcourse there will be girls fighting for him, why would he pick me? i'm average looking. Then i'll be single forever

[inhua]

switch off your emotions so you can see people clearly for who they are

men are often told to do this to lower their standards. only issue is some of these standards include accepting more bad character traits

[Asker]

it's so hard though, I tried ignoring them for their looks but it catches up to me

[inhua]

is it really that hard to look them in the eye without squinching?

[Asker]

lol yeah i dont know how my sister can do it but i can't

[NewgodOmega]

No no no no no
Don't ever do that sista
You need to go for the top 0.1 percent don't lower your standard for no one
Ain't you a strong independent I dont need a man killallmen kinda girl
That's what you should be focusing on sleep with 10000 guys who won't give a shit about you and enjoy your life with stds ofcourse why do you want to lower your standard don't ever do that it's a sin its anti feminsm you can't live with anti feminsm

I am extreme mgtow and i love to watch the world burn i will enjoy that from the top of the pyramid

[Staximus]

Maybe one day you'll figure it out and get tired of being a one night stand for players who have girls like you lining up to be yesterday's news.

[Anonymous]

Serves you right, this will teach you millennial women not to be so shallow. You don't deserve a good guy.

[Asker]

well guys are just as or more shallow, I've so many experiences of guys treating me like turd just cuz a hotter girl is around.

[Opinion Owner]

Serves you right, you reap what you sow. And that is a myth, women are more shallow then men. You always see men with unattractive women, and women are far more likely to reject men with physical/learning disabilities, lack of cash etc. Or dump there guy if they become poor or develop health conditions.
Hence why male virginity is far higher then female virginity.

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like you have hit the wall and are trying to settle with a beta

[Asker]

no i see many many attractive women with men not as attractive, rarely see any less attractive women with attractive men

[Asker]

wtf is a beta, you're using those lame alpha and beta terms now

[Anonymous]

I'll tell you that if you tell us guys how to find a fat ugly woman attractive.

[shortster]

Ignore appearance and look for common values