Oh boy, I went through a lot as well and honestly, I am tired with men and gave up on dating for a similar reason. BUT I have to admit that these bad experiences were a solid life lesson. Now I am able to recognize characters and true intentions much faster, I know better what I want, how to set boundaries more effectively. I can give you the same advise I could give myself. Turn your unpleasant experiences into something good and use your wisdom. Listen to your intuition and be vigilant. Do not ever ignore red flags. Don't rush things, take your time. When you feel something is not right - act. The sooner you end up something that is not good for you, the better. And, most of all, be strong, confident and never settle for less! There is something real about attracting particular people. I've always been shy, almost too nice, hiding my feelings and unable to say "no". People simply took advantage of that. You don't like something? Say it. Someone know that it hurts you, but keeps on doing this? Don't give this person another chance, they won't change. Etc. Etc.
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There are many men that fulfill your criteria and just want a loving, respectful, loyal woman to build a life with. I hear a lot of women cannot see what's in front of them.
You have a very good friend which surely means there's something about you of value.
Perhaps you're looking in the wrong places, perhaps you're living in the wrong places, perhaps you need to explore new places.
In any case, sounds like you need to change the record and find something different next time around.
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Perhaps the problem is not your standards but the men who you attract and select for dating. We are not all cads and rogue scoundrels!
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Nothing worth having ever comes easy. If you don't want to male that effort then you can expect to remain where you're at. Welcome to real life hun.
Well I tell you what change your profile and pm me and we can talk don't give up
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