Should I give up on finding love?

[Anonymous]

No girl has ever been interested in me. I don't want to give up but it seems like a waste of time at this point. When I was a kid all the girls thought I was crazy. As an adult I think they feel the same way. They say I look good and I am smart but whenever I show a girl I'm interested they always don't seem interested in me. I'm confident in myself about everything but it doesn't seem like I am meant for love.

I can still have kids without a lover so should I just give up? Maybe no one is meant to love me?

[MCheetah]

Yes, join the club.

I always got sh*t for being too short. I'm only 180 cm, which is female height, and they all want a guy who's 188 cm (6'2") to 195 cm (6'5"). It got so depressing, I outright quit pursuing women and wasting my time with them. The PERFECT woman, is worth it all, but like 98% of women are usually not worth the time, effort, simping, or blow to your self-esteem and self-worth that they whittle away at. Some of my male friends, who are all tall and good looking, imply that me being short and unattractive (unattractive to women, I guess) is a "blessing in disguise" because they all imply to be miserable. I'll never be seen as good enough, attractive enough, or tall enough to any women out there (at least, biological heterosexual women; the rest in the LGBT camp, I want nothing to do with)

So why continue wasting your finite time on a game you cannot win? The girls almost always want Chad, and if they can't get Chad, they settle for the least-overweight simp they can get. It took me years before my eyes were opened. I wasted my whole 20s thinking love existed and that women wanted love as badly as I did. Now, I know better. Not to give you a combination of Red Pills and Black Pills...

But if you're under six feet tall and unwilling to be a woman's financial and emotional slave, don't even bother pursuing romance nowadays; ESPECIALLY marriage. It's a lose-lose situation. Not to try to depress you... I've just spent 15 years learning better.

[ChrisMike1919]

Yep, that's the real truth... and if you don't have the cash, even worse. Old, poor, sick and alone it's no exaggeration for the future...

[Honesttguy]

Research "mystery method" he might shed light on how attraction works. And how to properly represent yourself especially in the beggining when it matters the most.

[Jadeli]

Patience is a virtue.
Don't give up because if you are patient enough you will meet your loved one in the most unexpected way at the most unexpected time.

[Asker]

I like your positive attitude but I don't if I agree. I don't want you to ever give up on finding someone

[Jadeli]

Well, share your opinion. I'm just being positive to dissipate the negative vibe in your question.
And to also give you hope.

[Asker]

I am virgin most girls don't want me. And they do want me I fall super inlove and act stupid. I tried controlling myself but when I love someone I become very overprotective. i am not control but I tend to put the woman on pedestal and her needs before mines which is unhealthy. I stop focusing on myself and the girl becomes my whole world.

[Jadeli]

(A friendly warning, tend to go off topic, so my bad.)

That is you. And before you expect someone to accept you, accept yourself.
Everyone has a flaw, we just naturally have imperfections. Either in our personality, our looks so on and so forth, but that's who we are. What can we do about it, go to God and ask for him to redesign us?
Men like you out there are a rare species that women fail to recognise and acknowledge as I said in one other opinion.
The same women then complain about toxic men.
But then again, you are you. Accept that.
Someone will come into your life and acknowledge you, for your character and habits. When someone really loves you they'll love your flaws too.

Also, it's not selfishness but put yourself first in every relationship you have. Self care is key.

[Asker]

It's the hormones that make me act silly. When I was a kid I was always nice to everyone and I was bullied and teased for it. So i have a hard time trusting others. And you did fine you were straight to the point.

[Jadeli]

Either way, you are a good a man. Whoever accepts you for you will be a lucky individual.
I really hope that this has cleared your mind of that negative bs.

[Asker]

Yes it did

[Anonymous]

Never give up. It sounds like what you are saying to girls is scaring them away so have someone help you with that. Watch videos about seducing girls. Don't abuse them like pick-up artists in the videos, but use the things they say to learn how to approach and talk to girls so they will want you.

[driven159]

everyone has a someone out there just need to cross paths in time maybe try some groups that have the same interests

[In_Trance]

yeah