How do I stop finding guys who changed into bad men without getting involved or wanting to change to but Men can change their self?

[SeaStorm1]

Women with a learning disability I know think to change a men but I know you can't change anything about a men. . Men should only change himself. I have previous partners that did change into bad men or did become bad men without me getting involved or trying to change them. It is impossible to change a man that is not willing to change. I know that I made tons of mistakes with some men. I just do not want anymore bad men. Just one good decont repecful men only. So far i only been on few dates with one player and two other guys that i also want to date. One guy did send a message as an ultimatum when i'm was interested in only longterm but not sure about sexual relationship. The last message the men sent to me was we are not compatible and I did block him after that. I did take some breaks from online dating and couldn't find guys inRL with similar issues with age. Some of guys didn't look like their age but i did ask one guy for his age of them when i did give him my number and he sent was 42 years old. Did sent wanting to ask me to out. I sent I love to hang out as friends. He did try to call me but I didn't answer and said I was busy and didn't hear or text from him. I think he ghosted to me. Now i been getting messages on that one player that i did give up and did stop messaging or I wasn't bother with replying to any message he did send me through out making new accounts from facebook and was from some online dating apps that he did message me on. I did block him. I did look through the blocked list on one of my dating sites and he was not on my blocked. I did check on my Facebook blocked list too and did check on the blocked list on Facebook and he was still blocked. I have been messaging a new guy that I met through Facebook dating and was going ok and only one man that did apologize and we will be meeting up in jan 12 after new years.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

When you meet a guy, tell him straight up. You are only looking for a good guy with a kind heart and no guy who is bad also you could ask him if he would care if you could do a background check on him to make sure he is a good guy. It's better to be safe than sorry.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[strateguy632]

by meeting them and spending hours together to see who they are before committing to any relationship or intimacy.

[SeaStorm1]

yep did these thing and one of them turn of to be player that didn't bother reply to me or messaging until i found through out facebook.

[coolbreeze]

Dating is hard and keep trying. I think eventually you will find a decent guy it will take time to weed out the bad apples.