Im asking this because he is really close to me extremely close to me, I've known him since may 29,2020 he has manipulation tactics, gaslighting tactics as well, last year he start it run his credit like crazy he would go to every dealership until he got approved, then got his girlfriend pregnant and made her had an abortion, then he continue to cheat on her to be honest she is naïve who believes him he hasn't stop cheating physically he has but mentally he had not he still follows females on his Instagram lies and says he does not use Instagram like that, then he says he doesn't get on social media like that but gets on facebook and watches videos for hours, he has been saying he is going to get a stable job for months no, but he continues to work door dash and even try to apply for uber eats not to long ago. Today we all three hung out he went to this dealership but things were going wrong so we left and called another dealership, so he basically is going on repeat with his life clearly she does not want to see it i don't know if i should consider her as being stupid or believes in his lies and manipulation, because she believes him that his "actions" have changed. And before people tell me things this guy is also my boyfriend i want it to put friend because i want it to avoid the boyfriend and girlfriend tittle yes this a poly relationship even if poly relationship are not real or whatever 🤣.
Is it possible for people to change? Can men change for themselves?
