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I think one of the gifts of relationships is they challenge you to work on yourself, with your partner and grow as a person. We all have "ourselves". Two people coming intimately together will have to work to keep create and build a healthy relationship.

One thing I had to learn at the ripe age of 50+ was how to listen without reacting to my partner. She would be communicating in a genuine and clear way and I'd react and go defense... my conditioned response to verbal threat. The conversation spun down out of control from there as I'd resist and fight and she'd work harder to get a message across... ending up tired and frustrated.

The root of this was with me, my ability to listen to what she was saying. Here's an
example.
She said: I'm not feeling well, tired... and I said "I'm sorry to hear...".
She responded..."don't say you are sorry".
My internal reaction can be defensive... why is shy affronting what I just said?

This leave me baffled as to what to say next. I said I'd call back in a few, I thought about it while shopping and come back a few minutes later as I realized what I communicated dropped the energy of the conversation down... and it made her feel worse. My statment was negative when she needed positive emotional support! By changing my response to a positive response "Im here for you and can help you feel better", ... made her feel better and all was well.

->I had to learn to listen and not react, understand what she was saying. Not everyone is the same, your partner may be different.

The real shame is regular people never get any advantage of it. Just Corporations and Banks , so they can continue doing the same things that got US in this shit hole.

A wheel barrel of $100's for one leg of chicken soon coming to a grocery near you.

Again, they can't raise interest rates enough to kill inflation, Dow and Real Estate will crash at 3% interest rate (source Gerald Celente Trends Journal) So, they either allow a crash of the markets to start a reset because FED and politicians have so screwed system up or they lower rates back to 0 % and continue to kick can down the road longer and keep printing them $100 bills. Do you really think Democrats with 25% job approval are going to allow a total collapse in an election year? Get real man. I mean Come on Man!